1. Healthcare

class
Sunday Mornings-Join us as we will be studying Hebrews throughout the
months of January and February in a combined class of all ages and genders
led by Jana and Evan.
Wednesday Nights-Each Wednesday for January and February we will have
guys and girls split into groups, training and affirming each group in ways they
can serve the Body of Christ.
ATTN PARENTS:
tonight
remember your tag
No organized activities will be going on for the youth group tonight. Enjoy the
night off with your families!
winterfest
Winterfest forms are in the Café today! Space is limited, so please sign-up as
soon as possible! Everyone (adults & students) must have a medical and
liability release form filled out in order to attend. Also, today is the last day for
the discounted price!
medical release form
Please let our teachers know if your child has any food allergies, items of
comfort, i.e. blanket, stuffed animal or any other special things that would
make your child’s experience a great one.
When you bring your child to Bible class, every child 2 years old - 3rd
grade must be issued a two-part name tag. One tag is for your child and
one is for the parent who will be picking up the child. This is the only way
your child may be picked up from class…give the matching tag to an adult
volunteer in the classroom when you pick up your child.
We have Children’s Worship Bulletins available in the racks in the Great
Hall.
All adults and students who participate in TYM activities need to fill out an
updated Medical and Liability Release Form for 2015. This form will be valid for
all 2015 activities and trips except for church camp and Jamaica. Jana Frankum
will be in the Great Hall TODAY with these forms. You will need your insurance
card and students will need at least one parent signature to complete these
forms. **Please note that all those going to Winterfest will be required to
complete these forms!!!**
Are you a likable person? Do you possess that likability factor that
makes people just generally like being around you? Or, are you that
person who is blind to the annoying ways you are coming across to
people (words, tone of voice, body language) and unaware of how it is
hindering your success in life, especially in your interpersonal
relationships?
To our guests...
We were all visitors once, too and we really are glad you’re here!
We know you may have some questions. We did. All we ask is
that you give us a chance to answer them and help you in any
way we can - no strings attached.
From Steve...
LIKABILITY
Vol. 57, No. 5
Not sure where to go? Need something?
DON’T BE A BRAGGER: The more you brag on yourself the less likable
you are. Compliment and highlight others instead, and they’ll probably
brag on you. Proverbs 27:2 - Let another praise you, and not your own
mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.
DON’T ACT SO INSECURE: Constantly belittling yourself by saying
things like, “This is my idea, but you’ll probably completely hate it,” may
be a well-meaning statement, and perhaps the one who says it is trying
Well, according to numerous studies that have been done to determine to show a bit of humility. But if overdone, it can become very irritating to
how or why people succeed at life, to a large degree your likability will others. We all have insecurities, but if we focus on our insecurities too
have more to do with your success or failure than you might ever realize. much it can be a turn off. 2 Timothy 1:7 - For God has not given us a
From a career standpoint, it often even trumps education and skill level. spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
What follows is a list of “likability” traits that people with the likability BE FLEXIBLE: People who are willing to try new things, are not
factor typically possess. Notice the biblical principles I have included for resistant to every change, consider the views of others, and don’t have
to get their way all the time are generally more likable. Hey, let someone
each.
else pick the restaurant for a change. Proverbs 8:34 - Blessed is the one
A POSITIVE ATTITUDE: A good attitude, especially during times of who listens to me, watching daily at my gates, waiting beside my doors.
difficulty, will generally cause people to like you, and be drawn to you.
However, a bad attitude will make people want to avoid you. Psalm MIND YOUR MANNERS: Saying things like “please,” “thank you,” “yes
118:24 - This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be ma’am,” “excuse me,” or “may I help you with that” will never go out of
style. Also, being well groomed and using appropriate non-toxic
glad in it.
language is part of good manners as well. Avoid this step, and watch
BE ENGAGING: People enjoy being around those who have a sparkle in how people avoid you. Luke 6:31 - And as you wish that others would do
their eyes, a pleasant, whimsical, and engaging personality. So consider to you, do so to them.
wiping that scowl off your face, and stop being a stick in the mud. Come
alive and engage people. Romans 12:11 - Do not be slothful in zeal, be BE A GOOD LISTENER: If you constantly interrupt people before
allowing them to finish their sentence, it sends a message that you don’t
fervent in spirit.
value what the other person has to say, only what you have to say. And
HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR: There is power in a smile, and laughter is people will become annoyed at you for that, even if they never tell you
contagious. God gave us the ability to do both, so why would we not? so. But even if they told you, you probably wouldn’t hear it. Proverbs
Proverbs 17:22 - A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit 18:13 - If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.
dries up the bones.
BE HUMBLE: Genuine humility is a very likable trait, and it alone will
ASSUME THE BEST IN PEOPLE: We too often jump on some out-of- take you a long way in life. James 4:10 - Humble yourselves before the
control, negative, ain’t-they-awful bandwagon, that is almost always Lord, and he will exalt you.
exaggerated. Instead of constantly judging and questioning people’s
motives, give them the benefit of the doubt, and assume goodwill on If you will consistently focus on traits like these out of a genuine heart,
then you will develop that likability factor. In fact, people will probably
their part. Matthew 7:1 - Judge not, that you be not judged.
even love you.–Steve
Ushers are waiting to help you with anything you may need as
well as direct you to restrooms, the nursery, etc. All you have to
do is ask and we’ll do everything we can to help.
About our worship
First of all, we will never intentionally do anything to embarrass
you - such as ask you to stand so we can identify you. All of our
acts of worship are strictly voluntary and you may participate
according to your comfort level. (Return communion cups to the
tray - please do not stack cups.)
Nursery
There is an attended Nursery available for children Birth through
36 months. We also have Bible story coloring sheets and crayons
available in the Sprouts unattended common area, along with a
streaming of the service for those who have children older than 36
months. An usher will be happy to show you the way.
Bible Study
Following our worship service, we invite you to stay for a time of
Bible Study. We know this can be intimidating but we promise you
that, just like in our worship service, we will do our best to make
you comfortable. And we believe you’ll be glad you stayed. A list
of classes is available in the foyer.
Want to know more about us?
Tusculum 101 meets in Adult 2 the first Sunday of every month
during class time. This is a time for you to ask, listen, and learn all
about being part of the Tusculum family!
February 1, 2015
Today’s Theme:
Join us at Tusculum for the
next three weeks as we
explore the idea of being
"Judged."
.
ORDER OF WORSHIP
Sing Amen, Amen
Welcome ........................................................ Chad Brock
Shout Hallelujah
On Jordan’s Stormy Banks
We Shall Assemble
Isaiah 40:8
I Peter 1:25
Ancient Words
Shepherd’s Prayer ...........................................Bill Peach
Faithful Love
Jesus, Keep Me Near the Cross
Communion................................................Doug Wooten
Paradise Valley
Sermon ................................................. Steve Cummings
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http://twitter.com/tusculumchurch
Song of Encouragement
Purify Me, Lord
Announcements ........................................... Chad Brock
worship
serve
connect
trades of hope
Natalie Bobo’s Girl Scout Troop is working on their Bronze
Service Award Project and they need our help. The troop is
partnering with an organization called Trades of Hope to
support the women of Haiti. The Haitian women create beautiful
beaded jewelry from recycled cereal and cracker boxes. These
women are then given fair trade for this jewelry, which enables
them to have the money to support their families. This jewelry is
then sent to the United States and sold all over the country
through Trades of Hope. They are currently short on the
recycled boxes that they need. The boxes must be at least eight
inches in length on at least one side and be made of very thin,
but colorful cardboard. The boxes must be clean and empty,
preferably with the end tabs trimmed off. Please flatten these
boxes and place them in the clear plastic Trades of Hope bin
located just outside the office door.
happy birthday
We want to wish a “Big” happy birthday to Valeria
Mitchell who is celebrating her 83rd birthday TODAY.
asking prayers...
Jonathan Ziegler came forward last Sunday asking for prayers
for guidance to help solve the conflicts he has with his family in a
Godly way.
remember our sick…
(The following is a recent update - a full list of those to remember in prayer is available in the literature racks in the foyer.)
our sympathy
All adults and students who participate in TYM
activities need to fill out an updated Medical and
Liability Release Form for 2015. This form will be valid
for all 2015 activities and trips except for church camp
and Jamaica. Jana Frankum will be in the Great Hall again
TODAY with these forms. You will need your insurance card and
students will need at least one parent signature to complete
these forms. **Please note that all those going to Winterfest
will be required to complete these forms!!!**
Chandler Darnell, son-in-law of Dan & Anita Florida, is not
doing as well as they would have liked. No visitors at this
time, but cards and prayers would be appreciated. His
address is 1006 Fitzroy Circle, Spring Hill, TN 37174.
Marie Gardner is now at the home of her daughter, Donna
Kinnane. Her address is 5220 Cochran Dr., Nashville 37220.
Al Greenfield, VA Hospital, CLC West Room 134, Alvin C.
York Campus, Bldg. 116, 3400 Lebanon Road, Murfreesboro,
TN 37129. He can have visitors and calls (615-225-6796).
Marcelle Mash, mother of Myra Rooker, Room 112, NHC
Healthcare, 2710 Trotwood Avenue, Columbia, TN 38401
Annie Patton is at home. Her address is 455 Swiss Ave., Apt.
316, Nashville 37211
sunday evening chapel class
RETURNED HOME: Martha Pulley, Nadine Turnbow,
Calvin Toney (3113 Edgewood Drive, Evansville, TN 47712)
Our sympathy is extended to Clayron & Jackie Allen on the
death of his sister, Barbara Kinslow. Funeral services were
held Friday.
medical release form
Derek Robinson will be teaching a lesson series on I John
“That We May Know” in the chapel on Sunday evenings in
February.
save the date
The TYM Girls would like to invite all Ladies to Spas &
Scriptures on February 28 from 1:00-4:00 p.m. More
details coming soon!
february pantry items
The Benevolent Committee is asking for mac & cheese,
cracker, chili, soups, cake mixes, peanut butter can veggies
(corn, carrots, juices, etc. ) for the month of February. You
may put the items in the box outside the office door.
Scout Sunday will be February 8. Many of our members (scouts
and scout leaders) will be wearing their scouting uniforms on
that Sunday. Please take a minute to encourage them for this
worthy pursuit.
prayer request
what’s the Bible all about?
Our prayers have been requested for Andrew Newcomb and
his family. He is the son of Dolores (Bo) Newcomb. He is
presently serving in the U. S. Air Force. He and his family
(Valerie & two sons, Andrew Jr. & Riley) were sent to England
in November 2014. He was deployed to Qatar last Sunday and
his family will remain in England. It would be an encouragement
to them if they could hear from someone back home. Valerie’s
mailing address is PSC 41 Box 2367, APO, AE 09464 and her
email address is [email protected].
Did you know Tusculum has an internet site
where individuals can sign up for free Bible
studies? These FREE lessons help you find out
directly from the Bible itself. Learn at home, on
your own, at your pace. Choose web lessons with an online
helper or lessons by mail with a “pen pal.” If you know of
anyone who would be interested in this type of Bible study,
please refer them to bridgetojesus.worldbibleschool.org.
friday ladies’ Bible class
Young Professionals Lunch Gathering, come see Jonathan
Ziegler in the Great Hall at 11:30 for more details?
Adult Classroom 2
Our sympathy is extended to Norman & Lonnell Parker &
their family on the death of his sister, Jeannette Park Lindsey.
Funeral services were held Wednesday in Paris, TN. She was
the aunt of Kim Peacher & Michelle Bradley.
Our sympathy is extended to Paul & Princess Fisher & their
family on the death of her stepdad, Jessie Scruggs. Funeral
services were held Wednesday in Franklin, TN. He was the
grandfather of Jeffrey Jenkins-Fisher and Stacia JenkinsFisher.
bridges ministry
The Bridges Ministry will have many opportunities for you to
serve in the coming year. Please be watching the bulletin for
more details. For now, come by the Bridges table in the Great
Hall, pick up a visit assignment, phone call/note assignment
and all types of outreach tools...shirts, cards, etc.
scout sunday
serve
nursery workers
Kathy Flanigan, Wyndee
Kirby, Tara Duke
The Friday Ladies’ Bible class began meeting Friday and will
go through March 13. They are meeting in the Children’s Café
at 9:00 a.m. The are studying “What Love Is” by Kelly Minter,
from 1st , 2nd , and 3rd John. See Minta Everson for more
information. This class follows the Williamson County Schools’
snow schedule.
Our Sympathy is extended to the family of our sister Margaret
Albright. Funeral services were held Friday.
young professionals
new address
Please make a note in your directory! Derek & Ann Robinson
have moved!! Their new address is 9136 Macauley Lane,
Nolensville, TN 37135.
prepare communion
Aren & Sarah Everson, Judy
Sutton, Rick & Donna Clark,
Charles & Deidra Rosenbaum
chair duty
Luke Copeland, Wesley
Grove, Toney Mitchell, Blake
McDaniel, Andy White, Gary
Bobo, Alan Kirby, Andy
Flanigan, Josh Simmons, Ben
Goodman, John Pettit
care for baptismal clothing
Ruth Barnes
clean building today
Steve & Zoia Tomes
privileged to serve
North Servers
1 Perry Chapman
2 Josh Cummings
3 Mike Jett
4 Doug Hughey
5 Derek Robinson
6 Samuel Chapman
7 Jacob Cummings
South Servers
1 Mike Bogle
2 Joe Nims
3 Mark Nichols
4 David Garrett
5 Aren Everson
6 Kris Jordan
7 John Hooper
If you cannot serve, call Charles Watson
(832-2986), Jack Cromer (429-5989),
or Jim Pomeroy (338-4811).
5:00 Worship
February Speaker - Derek Robinson
Opening Prayer - Brad Russell
Preside - Ray Bates
Closing Prayer - Jon Suttles
Sunday A.M.
Worship ................................ 9:00 a.m.
Classes .............................. 10:30 a.m.
Sunday P.M.
Life Groups .................... various times
Chapel Life Group worship ... 5:00 p.m.
Wednesday ......................... 7:00 p.m.
Sunday A.M. ........................................ 647
Bible Study ........................................... 380
Wednesday P.M. .................................. 295
Contribution.................................... 20,220
Budget ............................................ 19,500
YTD Total ........................................ 77,857
YTD Budget Total............................ 78,000
connect
MAIN LINE ............................................................. 833-1660
Benevolence .......................................................... 833-1869
Counseling (AGAPE).............................................. 781-3000
Hope & Inspiration Line .......................................... 833-9259
Tusculum Information Line ..................................... 833-0993
Missions ........................................... [email protected]
Outreach ............................................ [email protected]
Secretaries
Mary Gill, office ...................................... [email protected]
Melanie Moon, office ........................... [email protected]
Linda Brock, finance ............................... [email protected]
Ministers
Steve Cummings, pulpit ........................ [email protected]
Ann Robinson, preschool ......................... [email protected]
Rhonda Greenwood, elementary ......... [email protected]
Elders
P.R. Anderson ........................................................ 557-2516
Kerwin Everson ...................................................... 513-3515
Dan Florida ............................................................ 714-9358
Rob Frankum ......................................................... 969-6702
Jeff Neely ............................................................... 818-8444
Bill Peach ............................................................... 497-8242
Richard Thompson ................................................. 916-0838
Bob Weatherly ....................................................... 429-4435
6117 Nolensville Road, Nashville, TN 37211
www.tusculum.org
worship
serve
connect
trades of hope
Natalie Bobo’s Girl Scout Troop is working on their Bronze
Service Award Project and they need our help. The troop is
partnering with an organization called Trades of Hope to
support the women of Haiti. The Haitian women create beautiful
beaded jewelry from recycled cereal and cracker boxes. These
women are then given fair trade for this jewelry, which enables
them to have the money to support their families. This jewelry is
then sent to the United States and sold all over the country
through Trades of Hope. They are currently short on the
recycled boxes that they need. The boxes must be at least eight
inches in length on at least one side and be made of very thin,
but colorful cardboard. The boxes must be clean and empty,
preferably with the end tabs trimmed off. Please flatten these
boxes and place them in the clear plastic Trades of Hope bin
located just outside the office door.
happy birthday
We want to wish a “Big” happy birthday to Valeria
Mitchell who is celebrating her 83rd birthday TODAY.
asking prayers...
Jonathan Ziegler came forward last Sunday asking for prayers
for guidance to help solve the conflicts he has with his family in a
Godly way.
remember our sick…
(The following is a recent update - a full list of those to remember in prayer is available in the literature racks in the foyer.)
our sympathy
All adults and students who participate in TYM
activities need to fill out an updated Medical and
Liability Release Form for 2015. This form will be valid
for all 2015 activities and trips except for church camp
and Jamaica. Jana Frankum will be in the Great Hall again
TODAY with these forms. You will need your insurance card and
students will need at least one parent signature to complete
these forms. **Please note that all those going to Winterfest
will be required to complete these forms!!!**
Chandler Darnell, son-in-law of Dan & Anita Florida, is not
doing as well as they would have liked. No visitors at this
time, but cards and prayers would be appreciated. His
address is 1006 Fitzroy Circle, Spring Hill, TN 37174.
Marie Gardner is now at the home of her daughter, Donna
Kinnane. Her address is 5220 Cochran Dr., Nashville 37220.
Al Greenfield, VA Hospital, CLC West Room 134, Alvin C.
York Campus, Bldg. 116, 3400 Lebanon Road, Murfreesboro,
TN 37129. He can have visitors and calls (615-225-6796).
Marcelle Mash, mother of Myra Rooker, Room 112, NHC
Healthcare, 2710 Trotwood Avenue, Columbia, TN 38401
Annie Patton is at home. Her address is 455 Swiss Ave., Apt.
316, Nashville 37211
sunday evening chapel class
RETURNED HOME: Martha Pulley, Nadine Turnbow,
Calvin Toney (3113 Edgewood Drive, Evansville, TN 47712)
Our sympathy is extended to Clayron & Jackie Allen on the
death of his sister, Barbara Kinslow. Funeral services were
held Friday.
medical release form
Derek Robinson will be teaching a lesson series on I John
“That We May Know” in the chapel on Sunday evenings in
February.
save the date
The TYM Girls would like to invite all Ladies to Spas &
Scriptures on February 28 from 1:00-4:00 p.m. More
details coming soon!
february pantry items
The Benevolent Committee is asking for mac & cheese,
cracker, chili, soups, cake mixes, peanut butter can veggies
(corn, carrots, juices, etc. ) for the month of February. You
may put the items in the box outside the office door.
Scout Sunday will be February 8. Many of our members (scouts
and scout leaders) will be wearing their scouting uniforms on
that Sunday. Please take a minute to encourage them for this
worthy pursuit.
prayer request
what’s the Bible all about?
Our prayers have been requested for Andrew Newcomb and
his family. He is the son of Dolores (Bo) Newcomb. He is
presently serving in the U. S. Air Force. He and his family
(Valerie & two sons, Andrew Jr. & Riley) were sent to England
in November 2014. He was deployed to Qatar last Sunday and
his family will remain in England. It would be an encouragement
to them if they could hear from someone back home. Valerie’s
mailing address is PSC 41 Box 2367, APO, AE 09464 and her
email address is [email protected].
Did you know Tusculum has an internet site
where individuals can sign up for free Bible
studies? These FREE lessons help you find out
directly from the Bible itself. Learn at home, on
your own, at your pace. Choose web lessons with an online
helper or lessons by mail with a “pen pal.” If you know of
anyone who would be interested in this type of Bible study,
please refer them to bridgetojesus.worldbibleschool.org.
friday ladies’ Bible class
Young Professionals Lunch Gathering, come see Jonathan
Ziegler in the Great Hall at 11:30 for more details?
Adult Classroom 2
Our sympathy is extended to Norman & Lonnell Parker &
their family on the death of his sister, Jeannette Park Lindsey.
Funeral services were held Wednesday in Paris, TN. She was
the aunt of Kim Peacher & Michelle Bradley.
Our sympathy is extended to Paul & Princess Fisher & their
family on the death of her stepdad, Jessie Scruggs. Funeral
services were held Wednesday in Franklin, TN. He was the
grandfather of Jeffrey Jenkins-Fisher and Stacia JenkinsFisher.
bridges ministry
The Bridges Ministry will have many opportunities for you to
serve in the coming year. Please be watching the bulletin for
more details. For now, come by the Bridges table in the Great
Hall, pick up a visit assignment, phone call/note assignment
and all types of outreach tools...shirts, cards, etc.
scout sunday
serve
nursery workers
Kathy Flanigan, Wyndee
Kirby, Tara Duke
The Friday Ladies’ Bible class began meeting Friday and will
go through March 13. They are meeting in the Children’s Café
at 9:00 a.m. The are studying “What Love Is” by Kelly Minter,
from 1st , 2nd , and 3rd John. See Minta Everson for more
information. This class follows the Williamson County Schools’
snow schedule.
Our Sympathy is extended to the family of our sister Margaret
Albright. Funeral services were held Friday.
young professionals
new address
Please make a note in your directory! Derek & Ann Robinson
have moved!! Their new address is 9136 Macauley Lane,
Nolensville, TN 37135.
prepare communion
Aren & Sarah Everson, Judy
Sutton, Rick & Donna Clark,
Charles & Deidra Rosenbaum
chair duty
Luke Copeland, Wesley
Grove, Toney Mitchell, Blake
McDaniel, Andy White, Gary
Bobo, Alan Kirby, Andy
Flanigan, Josh Simmons, Ben
Goodman, John Pettit
care for baptismal clothing
Ruth Barnes
clean building today
Steve & Zoia Tomes
privileged to serve
North Servers
1 Perry Chapman
2 Josh Cummings
3 Mike Jett
4 Doug Hughey
5 Derek Robinson
6 Samuel Chapman
7 Jacob Cummings
South Servers
1 Mike Bogle
2 Joe Nims
3 Mark Nichols
4 David Garrett
5 Aren Everson
6 Kris Jordan
7 John Hooper
If you cannot serve, call Charles Watson
(832-2986), Jack Cromer (429-5989),
or Jim Pomeroy (338-4811).
5:00 Worship
February Speaker - Derek Robinson
Opening Prayer - Brad Russell
Preside - Ray Bates
Closing Prayer - Jon Suttles
Sunday A.M.
Worship ................................ 9:00 a.m.
Classes .............................. 10:30 a.m.
Sunday P.M.
Life Groups .................... various times
Chapel Life Group worship ... 5:00 p.m.
Wednesday ......................... 7:00 p.m.
Sunday A.M. ........................................ 647
Bible Study ........................................... 380
Wednesday P.M. .................................. 295
Contribution.................................... 20,220
Budget ............................................ 19,500
YTD Total ........................................ 77,857
YTD Budget Total............................ 78,000
connect
MAIN LINE ............................................................. 833-1660
Benevolence .......................................................... 833-1869
Counseling (AGAPE).............................................. 781-3000
Hope & Inspiration Line .......................................... 833-9259
Tusculum Information Line ..................................... 833-0993
Missions ........................................... [email protected]
Outreach ............................................ [email protected]
Secretaries
Mary Gill, office ...................................... [email protected]
Melanie Moon, office ........................... [email protected]
Linda Brock, finance ............................... [email protected]
Ministers
Steve Cummings, pulpit ........................ [email protected]
Ann Robinson, preschool ......................... [email protected]
Rhonda Greenwood, elementary ......... [email protected]
Elders
P.R. Anderson ........................................................ 557-2516
Kerwin Everson ...................................................... 513-3515
Dan Florida ............................................................ 714-9358
Rob Frankum ......................................................... 969-6702
Jeff Neely ............................................................... 818-8444
Bill Peach ............................................................... 497-8242
Richard Thompson ................................................. 916-0838
Bob Weatherly ....................................................... 429-4435
6117 Nolensville Road, Nashville, TN 37211
www.tusculum.org
class
Sunday Mornings-Join us as we will be studying Hebrews throughout the
months of January and February in a combined class of all ages and genders
led by Jana and Evan.
Wednesday Nights-Each Wednesday for January and February we will have
guys and girls split into groups, training and affirming each group in ways they
can serve the Body of Christ.
ATTN PARENTS:
tonight
remember your tag
No organized activities will be going on for the youth group tonight. Enjoy the
night off with your families!
winterfest
Winterfest forms are in the Café today! Space is limited, so please sign-up as
soon as possible! Everyone (adults & students) must have a medical and
liability release form filled out in order to attend. Also, today is the last day for
the discounted price!
medical release form
Please let our teachers know if your child has any food allergies, items of
comfort, i.e. blanket, stuffed animal or any other special things that would
make your child’s experience a great one.
When you bring your child to Bible class, every child 2 years old - 3rd
grade must be issued a two-part name tag. One tag is for your child and
one is for the parent who will be picking up the child. This is the only way
your child may be picked up from class…give the matching tag to an adult
volunteer in the classroom when you pick up your child.
We have Children’s Worship Bulletins available in the racks in the Great
Hall.
All adults and students who participate in TYM activities need to fill out an
updated Medical and Liability Release Form for 2015. This form will be valid for
all 2015 activities and trips except for church camp and Jamaica. Jana Frankum
will be in the Great Hall TODAY with these forms. You will need your insurance
card and students will need at least one parent signature to complete these
forms. **Please note that all those going to Winterfest will be required to
complete these forms!!!**
Are you a likable person? Do you possess that likability factor that
makes people just generally like being around you? Or, are you that
person who is blind to the annoying ways you are coming across to
people (words, tone of voice, body language) and unaware of how it is
hindering your success in life, especially in your interpersonal
relationships?
To our guests...
We were all visitors once, too and we really are glad you’re here!
We know you may have some questions. We did. All we ask is
that you give us a chance to answer them and help you in any
way we can - no strings attached.
From Steve...
LIKABILITY
Vol. 57, No. 5
Not sure where to go? Need something?
DON’T BE A BRAGGER: The more you brag on yourself the less likable
you are. Compliment and highlight others instead, and they’ll probably
brag on you. Proverbs 27:2 - Let another praise you, and not your own
mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.
DON’T ACT SO INSECURE: Constantly belittling yourself by saying
things like, “This is my idea, but you’ll probably completely hate it,” may
be a well-meaning statement, and perhaps the one who says it is trying
Well, according to numerous studies that have been done to determine to show a bit of humility. But if overdone, it can become very irritating to
how or why people succeed at life, to a large degree your likability will others. We all have insecurities, but if we focus on our insecurities too
have more to do with your success or failure than you might ever realize. much it can be a turn off. 2 Timothy 1:7 - For God has not given us a
From a career standpoint, it often even trumps education and skill level. spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
What follows is a list of “likability” traits that people with the likability BE FLEXIBLE: People who are willing to try new things, are not
factor typically possess. Notice the biblical principles I have included for resistant to every change, consider the views of others, and don’t have
to get their way all the time are generally more likable. Hey, let someone
each.
else pick the restaurant for a change. Proverbs 8:34 - Blessed is the one
A POSITIVE ATTITUDE: A good attitude, especially during times of who listens to me, watching daily at my gates, waiting beside my doors.
difficulty, will generally cause people to like you, and be drawn to you.
However, a bad attitude will make people want to avoid you. Psalm MIND YOUR MANNERS: Saying things like “please,” “thank you,” “yes
118:24 - This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be ma’am,” “excuse me,” or “may I help you with that” will never go out of
style. Also, being well groomed and using appropriate non-toxic
glad in it.
language is part of good manners as well. Avoid this step, and watch
BE ENGAGING: People enjoy being around those who have a sparkle in how people avoid you. Luke 6:31 - And as you wish that others would do
their eyes, a pleasant, whimsical, and engaging personality. So consider to you, do so to them.
wiping that scowl off your face, and stop being a stick in the mud. Come
alive and engage people. Romans 12:11 - Do not be slothful in zeal, be BE A GOOD LISTENER: If you constantly interrupt people before
allowing them to finish their sentence, it sends a message that you don’t
fervent in spirit.
value what the other person has to say, only what you have to say. And
HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR: There is power in a smile, and laughter is people will become annoyed at you for that, even if they never tell you
contagious. God gave us the ability to do both, so why would we not? so. But even if they told you, you probably wouldn’t hear it. Proverbs
Proverbs 17:22 - A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit 18:13 - If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.
dries up the bones.
BE HUMBLE: Genuine humility is a very likable trait, and it alone will
ASSUME THE BEST IN PEOPLE: We too often jump on some out-of- take you a long way in life. James 4:10 - Humble yourselves before the
control, negative, ain’t-they-awful bandwagon, that is almost always Lord, and he will exalt you.
exaggerated. Instead of constantly judging and questioning people’s
motives, give them the benefit of the doubt, and assume goodwill on If you will consistently focus on traits like these out of a genuine heart,
then you will develop that likability factor. In fact, people will probably
their part. Matthew 7:1 - Judge not, that you be not judged.
even love you.–Steve
Ushers are waiting to help you with anything you may need as
well as direct you to restrooms, the nursery, etc. All you have to
do is ask and we’ll do everything we can to help.
About our worship
First of all, we will never intentionally do anything to embarrass
you - such as ask you to stand so we can identify you. All of our
acts of worship are strictly voluntary and you may participate
according to your comfort level. (Return communion cups to the
tray - please do not stack cups.)
Nursery
There is an attended Nursery available for children Birth through
36 months. We also have Bible story coloring sheets and crayons
available in the Sprouts unattended common area, along with a
streaming of the service for those who have children older than 36
months. An usher will be happy to show you the way.
Bible Study
Following our worship service, we invite you to stay for a time of
Bible Study. We know this can be intimidating but we promise you
that, just like in our worship service, we will do our best to make
you comfortable. And we believe you’ll be glad you stayed. A list
of classes is available in the foyer.
Want to know more about us?
Tusculum 101 meets in Adult 2 the first Sunday of every month
during class time. This is a time for you to ask, listen, and learn all
about being part of the Tusculum family!
February 1, 2015
Today’s Theme:
Join us at Tusculum for the
next three weeks as we
explore the idea of being
"Judged."
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ORDER OF WORSHIP
Sing Amen, Amen
Welcome ........................................................ Chad Brock
Shout Hallelujah
On Jordan’s Stormy Banks
We Shall Assemble
Isaiah 40:8
I Peter 1:25
Ancient Words
Shepherd’s Prayer ...........................................Bill Peach
Faithful Love
Jesus, Keep Me Near the Cross
Communion................................................Doug Wooten
Paradise Valley
Sermon ................................................. Steve Cummings
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Song of Encouragement
Purify Me, Lord
Announcements ........................................... Chad Brock