Visitors Guide - First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego

Winter 2015 (February Edition)
Lifespan Religious Education
and Small Group Ministry
A Visitor’s Guide to
Classes and Programs
A Publication of the First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
This publication is updated frequently. Rev: 2/1/15, v1
http://www/firstuusandiego.org
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What’s Inside:
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Spirit in Practice ··························································· Page 4
The Eight Spheres of Spiritual Growth ························ Page 5
Current Classes and Programs Matrix ······················· Page 6
Children’s Religious Education ····································· Page 7
Youth Programs ···························································· tba
Young Adult and Campus Ministry Programs ············· Page 9
Our Whole Lives (OWL: Lifespan Sexuality Edu) ········· Page 11
Adult Religious Education
General Adult Education Information ······················· Page 13
Adult Classes ······························································ Page 14
Calendar of Adult Classes ······································ Page 25
Registration Information ········································ Page 27
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Small Group Ministry
On-Going Programs ······················································· Page 29
Neighborhood Groups ··················································· Page 44
Music Groups ································································· Page 46
Wisdom Circles ······························································ Page 48
Ministry Teams ······························································ Page 49
Small Group Ministry Calendar ···································· Page 50
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General Infomation
Misc Program Notes ························································· Page 51
Unitarian Universalist Principles ····································· Page 52
Mission and Outcome Statements ···································· Page 53
Covenant of Good Relations ·············································· Page 54
Our Ministers, Our Mission ··············································· Page 55
Locations ············································································ Page 56
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Spirit in Practice
All of our many and varied education classes fall within the
Eight Spheres of Spiritual Growth as outlined by the UUA’s
Spirit in Practice curricula.
The idea of spiritual practices encourages individuals to take
responsibility for their own spiritual development by spending
time working on it, deliberating on its meaning and how best
to pursue it, seeking to understand the sacred through reading and the counsel of others, and seeking to have contact
with the sacred through personal reflection and prayer.
For further information on this curriculum, please go to:
http://www.uua.org/religiouseducation/curricula/
tapestryfaith/spiritpractice/introduction/index.shtml
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The Eight Spheres of Spiritual Growth
Personal Spiritual Practices: These are practices done alone and, perhaps,
daily—such as meditation, dream work, journaling, prayer, and so on.
They’re what most people think of when they hear the words “spiritual
practice.”
Communal Worship Practices: Although Unitarian Universalists affirm the
uniqueness and individual nature of a person’s spiritual path, our movement is also founded on a belief that community is essential to that journey. Regular engagement with communal worship—the ongoing and
collective search for truth and meaning—is one way of supporting this
belief.
Spiritual Partnerships: Spiritual development is hard work, and most faith
traditions affirm the usefulness of companions on the journey. A spiritual
partnership can take the form of participation in a small group, a one-onone relationship with another congregant, spiritual guidance with a minister, or one’s own personal therapy. What matters most is the intentional
relationship with another person and a mutual commitment to the journey.
Mind Practices: Could a program of spiritual development be Unitarian
Universalist without an intellectual component? This is a role of adult religious education: book studies, film discussions, lectures, adult forums,
scripture studies, courses in UU history, and other RE offerings are all ways
to fulfill this dimension of a “rich, integrated program.”
Body Practices: We know that mind, body, and soul are interconnected.
Doesn’t it make sense, then, that a well-rounded spiritual practice includes some kind of physical practice? It might be running, sitting, gardening, tai chi, massage, or virtually anything else that keeps us in touch
with the miracle of our physical selves.
Soul Practices: These are the practices that exercise our creative selves—
drawing, painting, sculpting, music, poetry, and other creative endeavors.
It has been said that the Biblical expression that humans are “made in the
image of God” means that we are made to be creative.
Life Practices: Religious traditions from around the world agree that we
eventually need to take what we do in private and in our congregations
and bring it out into the rest of our lives—in our relationships with our family
members, in our workplaces, in our interactions with strangers.
Justice Practices: A fully mature spirituality does not stop at the goal of
transforming oneself, but must extend beyond oneself—to others—and
include a vision of transforming the world.
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The Eight Spheres of Spiritual Growth and Current Classes Matrix
All Practices:
Children’s Religious Education, Pg 7
Our Whole Live Sexuality Education, pg 12
Rasa Lila Healing, ongoing, Pg 15
Sufi Healing, ongoing, pg 16
Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi, pg 17
Building Sacred Ground, pp 23
Spring Spiritual Retreat, pg 29
Personal Spiritual Practices:
Communal Worship Practices:
Shape Note Singing, ongoing
Kirtan and Chanting, ongoing
Sanghas and Meditation Groups, pg 30 ongoing
Wisdom Circles, pg 48, ongoing
Sunday Services
Earth Centered Spirituality Circle
Spiritual Partnerships:
Neighborhood Groups, pg 44 ongoing
Mind Practices:
Deep Conversations, ongoing
Cosmos: the Great Story, ongoing
Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pg 19
Military Ministry Toolkit, pg 20
Body Practices:
Open Heart Sangha, ongoing
Yoga as Meditation, ongoing
The Dances of Universal Peace, ongoing
Soul Practices:
Peter Bolland: Lectures and Concert, pg 22
Life Practices:
Justice Practices:
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Children’s Religious Education, Hillcrest, Winter/Spring
2015
Nursery (9:30 & 11:30)
Our youngest children will receive tender and loving care in our
Nursery, provided by paid, professional caregivers. For safety reasons
we ask that these children be signed in and out of class.
Celebrating Me and My World (9:30am), 2 & 3 y/os
We will celebrate the wondrous qualities of children
and the people, animals, and objects around them.
The children will have the opportunity to develop selfesteem, experience opportunities to grow in trust and
caring, and a sense of being connected with all the
world around them. Children in this class may be
brought to the classroom by the beginning of the
service and should be picked up when the service
ends.
Love Surrounds Us (9:30am), 4 to 6 years old
Beloved community is built on love. In this class, children will
participate in story and activity that focuses on the way we feel, give,
and receive love in community. Based on the seven principles, this
class will build a foundation for a Unitarian Universalist identity while
creating lasting friendships.
Spirit of Adventure (9:30am), 7-9 years old
In this active, fun curriculum, children will begin their class jumping
directly into activities and puzzles to solve together. Focusing on
themes like science, sports, medicine, and exploring nature children
will use hands-on activities and games to learn about themselves,
their neighbors and Unitarian Universalism. Each session will end in a
Chalice Council which provides an opportunity for leadership
development and reflection.
Love Connects Us (9:30am), 10-12 years old
This upper-level class allows for our older kids to go deeper into what
it means to be a Unitarian Universalist while practicing building
community and living out our values to help heal the world.
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Rainbow Adventurers (11:30) K through 6th grade
In this multi-aged chapel-based class, children
will explore the seven principles of Unitarian
Universalism through story and self-directed
activities. The class will begin with a story focusing
on one of the seven principles where the kids will
be an active part of telling and playing out the
tales. Children will then be invited to choose from
a variety of learning stations that allow them to
engage the story and principle in a way that best
suits them.
5-6th grade leadership opportunities at Hillcrest:
We have a variety of leadership opportunities for our kids in 5th
and 6th grade including becoming a trained Youth Volunteer
Assistant who assists in the younger classes at 9:30 and
Children's Affirmation leaders who lead the congregation in the
Children's Affirmation during the 11:30am service. If your child
(ren) is/are interested in a leadership role e-mail Melissa.
South Bay
On the 2nd and 4th Sundays of the month, children ages 5-13
will start the morning in the worship service, and after the story
will go to class in Suite 101. They will share joys & concerns and
discuss the story from worship and how it connects to our UU
Principles. On the 1st, 3rd, and 5th Sundays of the month, we will
be continuing our multigenerational worship services.
General Information
Children's Religious Education classes are provided at no cost
to families. We ask that all families register in order for us to have
the necessary information to meet the learning needs of your
child(ren) and have important safety and emergency
information.
Not sure which class is best for your child(ren)? Want to join a
teaching team or get involved in children's ministry? Contact:
Melissa James, Ph.D., Director of Children and Family Ministry, at
[email protected].
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The OWL Program—A Holistic Approach to Human Development and Sexuality Education
A curriculum that helps children, youth, and adults
clarify their values, build interpersonal skills, and
understand the spiritual, emotional, and social aspects of sexuality is a part of the ministry programs
at the Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego.
The program, called Our Whole Lives (OWL), which helps participants make informed and responsible decisions about their sexual health and behavior, equips participants with accurate, ageappropriate information in six subject areas: human development, relationships, personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health,
and society and culture
Grounded in a holistic view of sexuality, Our Whole Lives espouses
the values of: Self-Worth, Sexual Health, Responsibility, and Justice
and Inclusivity
Our Whole Lives covers topics and skills that both parents and students want to have available but schools are less likely to cover.
The Kaiser Family Foundation has an interesting report on this subject called Sex Education in America: A View from Inside the Nation's Classrooms. New national surveys are challenging the convention that Americans are reluctant to have sexual health issues
taught in school. The surveys show that most parents, along with
educators and students themselves, would expand sex education courses and curricula.
Our Whole Lives uses approaches that work. The curricula are
based on the Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education
(PDF) produced by the National Guidelines Task Force, a group of
leading health, education, and sexuality professionals assembled
by the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United
States (SIECUS).
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Program sessions are offered fall and spring of alternating years:
grades K-1, grades 4-6, grades 7-9, grades 10-12, young adults (18
-35), and adults. (Note: OWL for Elders is in development.)
OWL: Our Whole Lives Lifespan Sexuality
Education Schedule
 Jr High OWL, Fall 2014
 K-1 OWL, Winter 2015
 Sr High OWL, Winter 2015
 Coming of Age Program, Summer 2015
 4-5 OWL, Fall 2015
For information contact Käthe Larick, Youth Programs Coordinator) at 619-298-9978x210) or Melissa James (Dir of Children and
Family Ministry) at x208.
Our Whole Lives Offers:
 Up-to-date information and honest, age-appropriate answers
 Activities to clarify values and improve decision-making skills
 Group-building to create a safe and supportive peer group
 Education about sexual abuse, exploitation, and harassment
 Critiques of media messages about gender and sexuality
 Acceptance of diversity
 Encouragement to act for justice
 A well designed, teacher-friendly leaders' guide
 Affirm parents as the primary sexuality educators of their children
 Sexuality and Our Faith, an optional religious component
Articles about the program have appeared in the media, including
Oprah.com (http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Adult-Sex-Education).
For further information, visit OWL at UUA. http://www.uua.org/re/owl/.
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Welcome to Our Adult Religious Education Program
The purpose of the Adult Religious Growth & Learning Program is
to nurture and stimulate the religious and personal growth of the
adult church community and the community at large, by offering
a varied and cohesive program within the context of the larger
Unitarian Universalist tradition and religious community.
In addition to the courses offered in this catalog by the Adult Religious Education Committee, look for many other adult learning
opportunities in the Window and on our Church Calendar.
Guidelines and Policies
The church’s Adult Religious Education Committee is largely self
supporting. Our expenses are met with donations collected from
our classes. The suggested donation for members for each class
is calculated per hour. Non-members are charged a slightly higher fee. Some courses may include the cost of materials or honorariums as noted. The donation helps to defray course expenses.
If you cannot afford the full suggested donation, please contribute what you can—no one is turned away. (Additional donations
are also welcome.) All of the courses offered by the committee
are led by volunteers. None of our leaders receive payment. All
persons involved abide by the church’s Conflict of Interest and
Covenant of Good Relations policies (http://
www.firstuusandiego.org/policies). Leaders are not allowed to
promote their own personal businesses for financial gain.
Hey, What Happened to My Class?
Sometimes a class is cancelled or the time, date, or location
changed at the request of the leader. People who are registered
for a class will be notified of any changes. To register, please
complete the registration and submit as requested.
LARGE PRINT
Large Print copies of this catalog are available upon request.
Please contact the Religious Education Office.
* 1st Church Members have signed a Bond of Union, have a current pledge, and made payments on that pledge.
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Adult Religious Education Classes
 Rasa Lila Healing, Pg 15 (new
12/19/14)
 Sufi Healing, Pg 16 (new 12/15/14)
 Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi,
w Lousie Jacobs, Pg 17 (new
12/5/14)
 Conversations with the Spiritually
Curious, Pg 19, w Rev Jim Grant
(new 1/14/15)
 Military Ministry Toolkit #1, w Rev
Kathleen Owens, Pg 20 (new
8/14/14)
 Military Ministry Toolkit #2, w Rev
Kathleen Owens, Pg 20 (new
1/30/15)
 Spring Spiritual Retreat, w Rev
Kathleen Owens, Pg 21 (new
9/12/14)
 Peter Bolland: Lecture Series and
Concert, Pg 22 (new 9/24/14)
 Building Sacred Ground, Pg 23
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Rasa Lila:
The Energetics of Contemplative and Inner Healing
Dates, Time and Room:
Starting January 3, every Saturday (except 5th)
10a-12p, Hillcrest, Rm 113.
Note: On-Going. Drop in, no registration required.
Facilitator: RJ Palmer
Learn to help heal the wounds of time and memory and
move forward into actualizing our deeper yearnings and
potential. Through playful practices of contemplation and
healing, new life skills come together with other spiritual and
healing practices and the fulfillment of personal goals.
“Rasa” (rah-sa) means the essence of mood and emotion.
“Lila” (lee-la) means play, rooted in unconditioned joy and love.
Rasa meditation is an ancient model of contemplation and
emotional healing; a foundation of the Bhakti (devotional) Yoga of
Krishna, the Metta (loving kindness) meditation of the Buddha, and
the easy “yoke” (yoga) of the Way of Jesus. Its influence extends to
aesthetics and the arts as well as Ayurvedic medicine and
seamlessly integrates into modern healing practices of Energy
Psychology.
As a group, participants will learn to be guides for one another,
helping one another heal the wounds of time and memory and
move forward into actualizing our deeper yearnings and potential.
Alternating between playful practices of contemplation and
healing, new life skills come together which are quite compatible
with other spiritual and healing practices and the fulfilment of
personal goals.
First Church welcomes information about alternative approaches in
many areas including health care and healing; however, such
information does not represent an endorsement by the Church.
RJ Palmer is an active leader in the First UU Christian Study group, is
a coach and healer, and is a Lay Community Minister through the
UU Society of Community Ministries, uuscm.org.
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Sufi Healing
We are not human beings
on a spiritual path,
We are spiritual beings,
on a human path.
Dates, Time and Room:
Starting January 6, every Tuesday
7-8p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
Note: On-Going. Drop in, no registration required.
Voluntary donation per session:
$6 member, $9 visitor
In the spirit of giving and receiving from the heart, your choice of
donating what you can is gratefully received to help support our UU
Adult Religious Education programs.
Facilitator: Jamil Larry Sweet
The art of Sufi Healing was brought to the western
hemisphere by Hazrat Inayat Kahn at the turn of the
twentieth century. The ancient healing practices of the Sufis
were distilled to formulate the Absent Healing Ceremony
and the transmission was passed on to the current day. In
this class we will explore the uses of meditation, breath,
sacred phrases and
wazifa, practices for
individual healing and
the Absent Healing
Ceremony itself.
Sufi Healing is not a practice to “cure” or “heal”, it is a
practice to share the healing properties of the Shafia, by
direction and dispersion to those places most in need.
First Church welcomes information about alternative approaches in
many areas including health care; however, such information does not
represent an endorsement by the Church.
This class will be taught by Jamil Larry Sweet, who is an initiate of
the Sufi Ruhaniat International, Sufi Organization International, and
the Dervish Healing Order. Jamil was first initiated in 1977 as a Sufi
Mureed and in 2012 initiated as a Healing Conductor of the Dervish
Healing order.
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Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi
Date, Time, Room: Hillcrest, Common Rm
Thu, Jan 22, 29; Feb 5, 12, 19, 26 7-9p
Voluntary donation per session:
$6 per session
In the spirit of giving and receiving from the heart,
your choice of donating what you can is gratefully
received to help support our UU Adult Religious
Education programs.
Drop in, registration not required.
Facilitator: Louise Jacobus
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Even though the
sources and
methods of this
class are diverse,
there is one focus:
to help tune our
hearts to the
timeless
teachings of Love.
Overview:
Join us in a exploration of the teachings of Jesus, as heard through
the heart of Universal Sufism. Through music, poetry, dance, lecture
and song we will explore the teachings of Jesus - not as rigid belief
structures, but as living guides - as they are illuminated and
embodied by the teachings of Sufis.
This class is for people who may have been wounded by organized
religion, or who have never felt comfortable in organized
Christianity, but are curious about Jesus as a teacher of spiritual
awakening, as someone who was spiritual, but not religious. The
starting point of the class will be the teachings of Jesus, as they
have been recorded. We will then explore the teachings of Sufi
masters, both ancient and modern, that give insight into the
teachings of Jesus. Sufi poets such as Rumi will also be included.
This class will be an experiential class. We will include the Dances of
Universal Peace, as well as Sufi practices and meditations that
embody the teachings of Jesus, bringing each participant a new
opportunity for understanding.
Class Topics:
Class 1. Introduction and Overview. What did Jesus teach? What is Sufism?
Class 2. The Journey of Spiritual Transformation and Healing.
Class 3. The Inner Life. Kingdom/Kindom of God within You.
Class 4. Die before Death and Born Again Teachings.
Class 5. Forgiveness.
Class 6. Greater Works than These. Power of Name.
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Class format:
Each class will be a rich blend of experiential activities interspersed with
lecture, readings, and poetry. We will begin each evening with a short
period of meditation using Names of the Divine that Jesus might have
used. The topic for the evening will be introduced using the teachings of
Jesus in English translation and also sometimes in the Aramaic that he
spoke. We will then do one of the Dances of Universal Peace that
embodies this teaching to help bring deeper understanding in an
experiential way.
Throughout the evening, there will be poetry (Rumi, Shabistari, Hafiz, Kabir), song,
and the writings of Sufi teachers, both ancient (Ibn ‘Arabi and al-Ghazālī) and
modern (Hazrat Inayat Khan, Murshid Samuel Lewis, Pir Vilayat Khan); and from
Christian mystics such as Hildegard of Bingen and Meister Eckhart; the Psalms
and New Testament, that illuminate the teachings of Jesus from a universal heart
-centered perspective. Each class will conclude with another Dance of Universal
Peace that also reflects the topic of the evening to help integrate and
assimilate the teachings.
Recommended prior reading: Cynthia Bourgeault http://
www.contemplative.org
 Book: The Wisdom Jesus: Transforming Heart and Mind - a New Perspective
on Christ and His Message http://www.pinterest.com/
pin/327707310360528644/
 Audio: Encountering the Wisdom Jesus: Quickening the Kingdom of Heaven
Within (CD Set or Audio Download http://www.pinterest.com/
pin/327707310360528570/
 For more references http://www.pinterest.com/firstuusandiego/sufis-anddances-of-universal-peace/
While attendance is not required at all sessions, it is encouraged. Please wear
comfortable, loose clothing. No experience with dance is needed to
participate. Everything you need will be taught before we begin. For people
who do not want to participate, it will be fine to just watch. We hope you join us.
Louise Jacobus has been a student of Sufism since 1975. She is a teacher in the Sufi
Ruhaniat International, one of the Sufi Orders in the lineage of Hazrat Inayat Khan
(ruhaniat.org). She is a certified leader of Dances of Universal Peace
(dancesofuniversalpeace.org) and she is the spiritual director of One Sun San Diego Sufi
Circle (onesunsandiego.com), a local affiliate of Sufi Ruhaniat International. She was
raised in the Christian tradition. In addition to her lifelong interest in spirituality, Louise has
developed a deep understanding of the psychological side of human nature through her
work as a therapist. She is a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist in private practice in San
Diego. Louise has a great love for the wisdom traditions of the world and for the richness
these ancient teachings can bring to our busy modern lives.
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Conversations with the Spiritually Curious
Rev Jim Grant
Date, Time and Room: Hillcrest, Rm 323.
Wednesdays:
Feb 4, 11, 18; Mar 4, 11, 18; Apr. 8, 15; May 6, 20
Coffee 6:45-7p, Lecture 7-7:30p, Discussion 7:30-8p
Voluntary donation per session: at will
In the spirit of giving and receiving from the heart, your choice
of donating what you can is gratefully received
to help support our UU Adult Religious Education
programs.
Drop in, registration not required.
Facilitator: Rev Jim Grant, Affiliate Minister
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Rev Jim will lead conversations around Infinity in
Your Hand: A Guide for the Spiritually Curious by
former UU Minister William H. Houff. About the
author.
Spiritual growth is an intensely personal
undertaking. While we can learn from the
journeys of others, it is only through taking out our
own beliefs and listening to our inner wisdoms,
understanding them, and sharing them that we reveal to our true self.
Date
Pt I, Feb 4
Pt II, Feb 11
Pt III, Feb 18
Pt IV, Mar 4
Pt V, Mar 11
Pt VI, Mar 18
Pt VII, Apr 8
Pt VIII, Apr 15
Pt IX, May 6
Pt X, May 20
Chapter
1, 3, 10
2, 4
5, 6
7, 8
9
11
12
13, 16
14, 15
16
Topic
What is “Real” Anyway?
Myths and Mysticism
Four Paths, same Goal
Pitfalls on the Path
Stages on the Journey
Know Yourself
Whoops! More Pitfalls
Roots hold me close, Wings set me Free!
The problem of ‘Doing Good’
Questions for a Beautiful Self
Important note: While reading the book is not required your
experience will be greatly enhanced if you do so. You are strongly
encouraged to attend all sessions, but this is not required.
Copies of the book may be purchased through our Amazon Affiliates
Program or at our bookroom.
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Military Ministry Toolkit
Dates, Time and Room:
Registration is required, no drop ins.
Childcare is available if requested two weeks prior
#1
Thursdays: Feb 12, 19, 26; Mar 5, 12, 19, 26
(Mar 5 is a Group Reflection)
6:30-8:00p, Rm 323
Repeats...
#2
Thursdays: Mar 26; Apr 2, 9, 16, 30; May 7
6:30-8:00p, Common Room
Facilitators: Revs Kathleen Owens and Jennifer Channin
Is our congregation outreaching to active duty military
personnel, veterans and their families? Do we want to make
a safe, welcoming space in our community for sharing
members’ stories of involvement in war or military life? Does
our community seek to become more intentionally open
and inviting to military service people, veterans, and their
families?
Begin a conversation in our congregation about why and
how to explore military ministry to inspire support for
deepening and strengthening this aspect of our ministry.
Study, reflect, and discuss guide questions such as:
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How do we support families who
have someone serving in the
military?
How can we be welcoming to
military personnel who are
discovering Unitarian
Universalism?
How can we invite stories of
veterans and their families into
congregational life?
How can we hold honest and
faithful conversations about war
and peace that make room for
multiple perspectives,
experiences, and truths?
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Spring 2015 Spirituality Retreat: P3
Date, Time and Room:
Fri April 10, 5p— Sun April 12, 10a
Prince of Peace Abbey, Oceanside
Cost for Participants:
$180 for room and board
Payment in full due by Fri Mar 13 to hold a
place
Partial scholarships may be available
Facilitator: Rev Kathleen Owens, Lead Minister
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T
he retreat is designed for the needs of Unitarian Universalist spiritual
learners. Its purposes are two-fold. First, we want to offer a time of
renewal, healing and spiritual growth, in a beautiful and peaceful setting,
away from the distractions of everyday life. Second, we want to give you
the opportunity to explore spiritual growth through Psalms, Poems, and
Prayers—P3. The retreat will consist of group instruction, practice and
worship. There will be time for private retreat as well.
Where: Prince Of Peace Abbey in Oceanside. This is an active Benedictine
Roman Catholic Monastery. It is the ministry of the monks there to
welcome guests who wish to deepen their awareness with prayer and
meditation. The monks will be providing our meals and accommodation
during the retreat. Kathleen will be responsible for our program during the
weekend.
The retreat is in a beautiful setting overlooking the ocean in Oceanside. It
is removed from the neighborhood enough to offer a feeling of
sanctuary. The rooms are simple but comfortable. Each has a private
bath. Some of us will need to share rooms.
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Vegetarian fare is available. Vegans need to bring protein items.
Refrigeration is available.
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Peter Bolland:
Lecture Series and in
Concert
Mondays: May 4, 11, 18, 25,
Jun 8
Bard Hall
Watch this space for exciting
details about an upcoming
lecture series and concert by
Peter Bolland, singersongwriter, speaker, writer,
and teacher .
Co-sponsored with the
Unitarian Universalist Men’s
Fellowship (UUMF).
Possible topics, (subject to change):
1st talk: A comparative study on Eastern and Western thought
2nd talk: The Wisdom of the Buddha
3rd talk: Thoreau, Gandhi, and King- The Politics of Right Action
4th talk: The Nature of Love
5th evening: A Musical Experience
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Building Sacred Ground:
Creating Deeper Meaning at First Church
Watch here for further sessions in 2014 and 2015
(see further Information on next page )
O
ffered through the Membership Ministry
Team and facilitated by ministers, staff and
leaders.
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Note: There is no voluntary donation asked for these classes.
Building Sacred Ground is an experiential 4-session group to help
people explore Unitarian Universalism deeply, share personal
foundations of faith, and get to know a small group of people
very well. The series ends with a private tea with ministers where
people have a chance to visit, socialize and dialogue.
Building Sacred Ground is usually offered once a quarter. For a
complete date listing, see the next page. You must attend all four
sessions in the quarter you choose. Locations will be announced.
About Building Sacred Ground
This four session experience (the individual classes are listed on the
next page) is a must for anyone who wants to: get to know a
small group of people very well, explore and share their individual
journeys and learn ways to become engaged here at First
Church. By attending these sessions, you will become more deeply involved in church life and have a better understanding of Unitarian Universalism.
Building Sacred Ground is strongly recommended for people considering membership. Building Sacred Ground is also highly recommended for established members who
want to deepen their relationship with their
faith, this church and this community.
UU
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Building Sacred Ground
( see Information on previous page)
Building Sacred Ground: Session One - UU 101—Our Foundations
(Rm 323)
This is a dynamic, intriguing and wonderful session taught by our
intern minister. This session reviews Unitarian Universalist European
and American history; our Unitarian and Universalist theologies; and
our practices: worship, education, social justice, pastoral care, and
community. Time is set aside to answer all of your questions.
Building Sacred Ground Session Two– Spiritual Journeys (Rm 323)
Participants will build sacred space, and begin to build personal
community. This session is activity based and will encourage participates to reflect on their spiritual lives, spiritual development and
future spiritual explorations. Questions for our ministers will also be
collected.
Building Sacred Ground Session Three: Programs and Opportunities
(Rm 323)
Joined by church lay leaders, this session will explore the rich array
of church projects and groups. This session is activity based and
participants will gain a sense of how to nurture their spiritual life,
explore personal gifts and to find ways to engage in the broader
community. Questions for our ministers will also be collected.
Building Sacred Ground Session Four: Tea with a Minister (Rm 320)
The group has now bonded and participants are invited share casual social time with the ministers in an intimate setting. Ministers will
respond to the questions that have been gathered throughout the
previous sessions. For those considering membership, the path to
membership will be presented. For those who have been seeking a
deeper church experience (either newcomer or established member), ways to become more involved will be identified before the
session is completed.
A minimum of 10 people are needed to conduct this series, with a
maximum of 20 allowed. This series fills up fast, and is offered four
times through the 2013-14 church year.
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Adult Religious Education Class Calendar
February, 2015
Tue, Feb 3, 7p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
—Sufi Healing
Wed, Feb 4, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt I, What
is Real w Rev Jim Grant
Thu, Feb 5, 7p, Hillcrest, Common Room
—Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi, Pt III—Inner Life
Sat, Feb 7—10:30a, Hillcrest, Rm 113
—Rasa Lila Healing
Tue, Feb 10, 7p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
—Sufi Healing
Wed, Feb 11, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt II,
Myths/Mysticism w Rev Jim Grant
Thu, Feb 12, 7p, Hillcrest, Common Room
—Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi, Pt IV—Death and
Birth
Sat, Feb 14—10:30a, Hillcrest, Rm 113
—Rasa Lila Healing
Tue, Feb 17, 7p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
—Sufi Healing
Wed, Feb 18, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt III,
Four Paths, Same Goal w Rev Jim Grant
Thu, Feb 19, 7p, Hillcrest, Common Room
—Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi, Pt V—Forgiveness
Thu Feb 12, 19, 26; Mar 5,12, 19, 26, 6:30, Rm 323
(repeats starting Mar 26)
—Military Ministry Toolkit #1 w Revs Kathleen Owens
and Jennifer Owens
Sat, Feb 21—10:30a, Hillcrest, Rm 113
—Rasa Lila Healing
Tue, Feb 24, 7p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
—Sufi Healing
Thu, Feb 26, 7p, Hillcrest, Common Room
—Jesus Through the Heart of a Sufi, Pt VI—Works and
Power
Sat, Feb 28—10:30a, Hillcrest, Rm 113
—Rasa Lila Healing
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Adult Religious Education Class Calendar
March, 2015
Wed, Mar 4, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
IV, Pitfalls on the Path w Rev Jim Grant
Wed, Mar 11, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
V, Stages on the Journey w Rev Jim Grant
Wed, Mar 18, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
VI, Know Yourself w Rev Jim Grant
Thu Feb Mar 26; Apr 2, 9, 16, 30; May 7, 6:30, Rm 112
—Military Ministry Toolkit #2 w Revs Kathleen
Owens and Jennifer Channin
April, 2015
Wed, Apr 8, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
VII, Whoops, More Pitfalls w Rev Jim Grant
Fri-Sun, Apr 10-12
—Spring Spiritual Retreat w Rev Kathleen
Owens
Wed, Apr 15, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
VIII, Roots and Wings w Rev Jim Grant
May, 2015
Wed, May 6, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
IX, Problem of Doing Good w Rev Jim Grant
Mondays, May 11, 18, 25; Jun 1, 8
—Lectures and Concert w Peter Bolland
Wed, May 20, 6:45p, Rm 323
—Conversations with the Spiritually Curious, Pt
X, Questions for a Beautiful Self w Rev Jim
Grant
June, 2015
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Click to send Registration email
The Eight Spheres of Spiritual Growth
and Current Classes Matrix, pg 6
Military Ministry Toolkit #1, with Revs
Owens and Channin
Open by registration only
Thu Feb 12, 19, 26;
Mar 5, 12, 19, 26
(Mind Practices) (pg 20) ..........
Military Ministry Toolkit #2, with Revs
Owens and Channin
Open by registration only
Thu Mar 26; Apr 2, 9, 16, 30;
May 7
(Mind Practices) (pg 20) ..........
Spring Spiritual Retreat, with Rev
Kathleen Owens
Open by registration only
Fri-Sun, Apr 10-12
(Mind Practices) (pg 23) ..........
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Registration for Adult Religious Education Classes
To register:
Return this form to Chris Christenson, Coordinator
- on line at
http://www.firstuusandiego.org/adult-religious-educationclass-registration
- in person to the RE Office, Room 111b
- by mail to 4190 Front Street, San Diego, CA 92103
- by fax to 619.298.9997
- by email to [email protected]
- by phone at 619.298.9978 x 214
Name
_______________________________________________________
Address
_______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________
Phone
_______________________________________________________
Email
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To register:
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Small Group Ministry On-Going Programs
Personal and Communal Worship and Spiritual Practices, Pp 30-32:
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Meditation Sanghas
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Meditation
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Open Heart Sangha
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Dances of Universal Peace
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Kirtan and Chanting for Peace
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Soulful Sundown
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Spiritual Saturdays at South Bay
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Mind Practices, Pp 33-35:
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Deep Conversations
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Christian Study Group
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Humanist Film Study / Discussion Group
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Cosmos: Journey of the Universe
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A Course in Miracles
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Movie Lovers Gabfest,
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Book Lover’s Affinity Group
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Compassion Reading Group
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Body Practices, Pp 36-37:
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Yoga as Meditation
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Chi Gung
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Thursday Morning Casual Bicycle Riders
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Tennis Gathering
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Soul Practices, Pp 38-39:
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Covers & Originals Music Nights, Support Local Bands
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Shape Note Singing: The Sacred Harp
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Art Guild
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Handicraft Affinity Group
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Charity Knit and Craft Affinity Group
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Craft Affinity Group
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Story Telling Affinity Group
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Life Practices, Pp 40-42:

Hillcrest Social Hour

South Bay Coffee and Conversation
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Singletarians

Dynamic Duos
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Ages 18-24s
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Ages 23-35s
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Ages 30-55s
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UU Men’s Fellowship
Justice Practices, Pg 43:
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Friends of de Benneville Pines
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Rainbow Action
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UUniforms
Neighborhood Groups, Pg 44
Music Groups, Pg 47
Wisdom Circles, Pg 48
Ministry Teams, Pg 49
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Small Group Ministry
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Personal and Communal Worship and Spiritual Practices
Small Group Ministry
Meditation Sanghas, Hillcrest Campus
Mondays from 7-9p, Hillcrest, Rm 323
Wednesdays from 10a-12p, Rm 323
Our program begins with a 20 minute (Monday) or 40-minute
(Wednesday) sitting meditation followed by a brief
ceremony, discussion of practice, and a announcements.
The final hour features a dharma talk, either live or recorded,
or a facilitated discussion. Beginners and visitors are
welcome. For more information or questions, please contact
John Holl, facilitator at 619-546-6525 or [email protected].
Meditation, Sunday Morning, Hillcrest Campus
Sundays from 9-9:20a, Hillcrest, Rm 323
A 20-minute sitting meditation prior to our first worship
service. Beginners and visitors are welcome. For more
information or questions, please contact John Holl, facilitator
at 619-546-6525 or [email protected].
Open Heart Sangha
Most Sundays from 4:00-6:00p,
Hillcrest Rm 323. At will donation.
Practicing in the tradition of
Vietnamese Zen Master Thich Nhat
Hanh, the group practices sitting and
walking meditations, has a short
lesson, shares about the practice,
and sings. Open to everyone. Please
bring a cushion or mat to sit on, or
chairs will be available. Drop in,
registration not required.
For further information, please contact Marge Wurgel at
[email protected].
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Kirtan and Chanting for Peace
Every 4th Saturday 6:30-8p, (No Kirtans Oct, Nov or Dec)
Hillcrest, Bard Hall, with awardwinning Spirit Soul and Friends. At
will donation.
Join us for a moment of relaxation
meditation, peaceful mantra
chanting, music, yoga, dance.
Come and engage in the spiritual practice of
kirtan a non-denominational practice,
that has been passed down since time
immemorial and a constant in all
paths and religions. (But, what is kirtan,
really?) Drop in.
Small Group Ministry
Dances of Universal Peace with Louise Jacobus
Quarterly, 2nd Saturdays
7pm (meditation), 7:30p (dance).
Next dance: Oct 11.
2015 schedule: Jan 10, Apr 11, Jul 11, Oct 10
At will donation.
An interfaith practice,
inspired by and honoring the
many wisdom traditions of the
world. The Dances use sacred
phrases, simple circle dances, and
music to create an opportunity
where hearts can open, spirits can
soar, and a deeply-rooted peace
can be experienced. Since The Dances are is an experiential
process, come ready to participate in some spiritual
practice! No experience is necessary. Just bring your
curiosity and your open heart and be prepared to dance.
Drop in.
For information, contact Louise Jacobus
[email protected] or dancesofuniversalpeace.org.
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Small Group Ministry
Soulful Sundown alternative
worship
Occasional 4th Saturdays,
6:30-7:30p
Aug 23, Oct 25, Jan 24,
Mar 28, May 23
Hillcrest, Clark Chapel
Experience. Engage.
Explore.
Spiritual Saturdays at South Bay
Usually 3rd Saturdays 10a-12p, South Bay Campus.
 November 15th, 1-3 pm, Writing as a Spiritual Practice,
with Adam Dyer (note the afternoon time!)
 December 6th, 10 am-12 pm, Spiritual Practices for the
Holiday Season, with Rev. Jennifer Channin
 January 17th, 10 am-12pm, with Rev. Kathleen Owens
Are you interested in trying a new spiritual practice and
deepening your relationship to yourself and the South Bay
community? Join us to learn different spiritual practices ach
month. Previous Saturdays have included: meditation, qi
gong, prayer, singing meditation, writing, art and spirit. Save
the dates for upcoming sessions---dates and times listed
above. To sign-up, contact [email protected], 619298-9978, x216.
Check the latest South Bay E-newsletter
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Mind Practices
Deep Conversations
Every Sunday after each service, 10:45-11:15a and 12:451:15p
in the Hillcrest Welcome Center Archives, Rm 313
The sermon is only the beginning. Did you find yourself
moved in some way by the sermon? Did the reflection
question stir something in you? Join with others for a
facilitated Deep Conversation around the sermon message.
And most importantly, bring your coffee.
Humanist Film Study / Discussion Group
Generally, 4th Sundays at 1p, Hillcrest, Rm 323.
Our focus is on human values & concerns using
scientific research findings, world history, art, and
biographies to try to explain life on earth and the
workings of the cosmos, from a secular
perspective. Recent discussions have included Suffering, the
Apocalypse, Evolution, and Environmental Activism. Join us
for a lively afternoon. Check Window or Church Calendar for
updates.
Small Group Ministry
Christian Study Group, Unitarian Universalist
Sundays (except 1st and 5th) at 1:30p, Hillcrest, Rm 321
A movement and organization of non-creedal followers of
Jesus who are interested in exploring liberal
Christianity as we walk freely in the spirit of
Jesus, growing our souls and the soul of the
world. Recent discussion topics have included:
The Gospels in Translation, The Apostle Paul,
Avoiding Jesus, The Origins of Judeo Christian
Traditions, Early Christian Proclaiming.
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
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Mind Practices
Cosmos: the Great Story
Every 1st Sunday, 1-3p, Rm 323, with Keith Mesecher . Drop in.
Donation accepted.
Celebrate the birth and evolution of the universe and
humanity’s role in this
magnificent, cosmic
unfolding; the great powers
at work in it and our
damage to it. Discover our
potential to be a positive,
healing and transformative force, living in mutually
enhancing relationships with the life and non-life forms that
constitute the earth community.
Each session will show a video followed by discussion.
For details: http://www.journeyoftheuniverse.org.
A Course in Miracles
Every 1st Thursday , 6—7:30p, Rm 113
Drop in. Donation accepted.
A Course in Miracles is a powerful, comprehensive, and mind
-opening training program helping us remove blocks to
awareness of love's
presence. For details
contact Liza Ferrier
at
[email protected].
Movie Lovers Gabfest (Affinity Group)
3rd Thursdays at 7-9p,
Hillcrest Welcome Center Archives, Rm 313
What movies, new and old, have moved you or made you
laugh? What are your favorite DVDs? We meet the third
Thursday of the month. If you have any questions, contact
Bobbi Karpinski at [email protected]
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Mind Practices
Book Lover’s Affinity Group
2nd Thursday, Hillcrest, Rm 320, 6–8p
Discusses books, usually fiction. Selections are easily
available at the public library or in paper back. Titles include
contemporary world fiction, and novels by Nobel, Pulitzer,
and Booker Prize winning authors.
Maureen McNair at [email protected] or
619.427.1769
Small Group Ministry
Compassion Reading Group
2nd Thursdays, 12:30-2p, Hillcrest, Rm 320
Currently reading: Start Where You Are: A Guide to
Compassionate Living, by Pema Chödrön. Newcomers are
welcome to join. For information contact Bev Harju at
252.258.1212.
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Body Practices
Yoga as Meditation with Rolly Fanton
Mondays, 10a-12p, Hillcrest, Common Room. Donation.
(Dec 15, 22, in Bard Hall)
Join our happy UU Yoga
community in a 90-minute
session of traditional, restorative
yoga. Our emphasis is on
breathing and sensory
awareness. When asanas are
practiced with purpose and
stillness, the natural step is into
meditation. All levels from
beginners to seasoned yogis will
find meaning here. Namaste! Drop in.
Chi Gung, South Bay
Tuesdays at 9a, with Lolly Brown
Incense Chi Gung (Xiang Gong), a
Buddhist exercise consisting of 15 simple
movements and 1 standing posture. This
set is specifically designed to activate
the meridians and improve health and
harmony of mind and body. Xiang Gong
is easy to learn and can be practiced by
people of any age or physical condition,
in standing, sitting or prone positions. The
exercise uses breath, movement,
postures and meditation techniques.
Benefits can be felt from the very first
time you practice.
Please wear loose clothes. Beginners always welcome,
come join us! For information please contact Lolly Brown at
[email protected].
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Body Practices
Thursday Morning Casual Bicycle Riders
We usually meet at 8:30a at Tidelands Park on Coronado
Island. Ride south on the Silver Strand, 22 miles return. Done
by about 11:15a. Often followed by coffee & snacks at the
Ferry Landing.
Email Chris Smith [email protected] if you wish more info.
Small Group Ministry
Tennis Gathering, UU
4th Saturdays at 9:30a, Porto Fino Courts, Tierrasanta
Join UU tennis players for a round of tennis. Players of all
ability levels are welcome. Bring a new can of tennis balls
and a light snack to share. Contact Joe Combs at
858.571.5300 or Pat McCann or 858.550.0221.
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
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Soul Practices
Small Group Ministry
Covers & Originals: Music Nights
Occasional 4th Saturdays, 6-9p,
Various rooms (Oct 18).
Come and listen. Try something new.
Shape Note Singing: The Sacred Harp
2nd Sundays, 3-5p, Rm 113. At will donation.
Everyone is welcome. It doesn’t matter if you can’t
sing. It matters that you want to. Your voice is your
harp. Let’s sing together, without instruments or formal
training, using shape note notation.
Or just stop by and listen. Drop in,
registration not required.
For details contact Jerry Schreiber
[email protected] or view the San Diego FaSoLa web site
at www.sdfasola.org.
UU Art Guild
UU Art Guild/Bard Hall Gallery Receptions are the 2nd
Tuesday of the month, 6-8:30p in Bard Hall/Welcome Center.
Join us for entertaining and informative discussion with
working local artists. The public and all levels
of experience are welcome to our conversation. Contact
John Keasler at 619.905.2673 or [email protected] for more
information.
Check the current Window newsletter or Church Calendar
for specifics.
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Soul Practices
Handicraft Affinity Group
4th Thursday, 4349 Adams Ave, 10:15–4:00p
Get together to talk and bond while doing any number of
crafts: knitting, quilting, scrapbooking, jewelry, planting
succulents, making things to sell at the church
Christmas sale. Drop in anytime, stay whatever amount of
time you have, bring a brown bag lunch.
Susan Riegel Harding at [email protected].
Craft Affinity Group
3rd Friday, 6:30p (does not meet during the summer or hot
weather)
Bring your unfinished objects and ideas on when you would
like to have a routine meeting time. We'll get to know one
another and put together meeting logistics that works for us.
Maureen McNair’s Home in Chula Vista. Please contact
Maureen McNair at [email protected] or
619.427.1769 with questions and for the address and
directions.
Story Telling Affinity Group
For information contact Dorothy Pearlman at
[email protected].
Small Group Ministry
Charity Knit and Craft Affinity Group
2nd and 4th Tuesdays, 7–9p
Knitting, Crocheting, Needlepoint, Quilting, Handicrafts.
All levels of skill.
Call Georganne Hoctor at 619.265.7274 for location
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Life Practices
Small Group Ministry
Hillcrest Social Hour
Sundays, immediately after each service, in Bard Hall.
Become part of our community. Join us for conversation,
coffee, and lite hors d'oeuvres by Chef Ray and his team.
Volunteers always needed and welcomed. Contact: Kath
Hillery at [email protected].
South Bay Coffee and Conversation
Sundays, immediately after the service, when the Ministers
preach “live”.
Join us for a facilitated discussion by the Minister about the
questions raised by the sermon.
Check the latest South Bay E-newsletter for the next Coffee
Conversation.
Singletarians, UU
Sundays at 12:30p, a local restaurant
Fulfilling a variety of intellectual, recreational and social
needs of the single, Unitarian Universalist, older-adult.
Contact Bob Graham at 858.560.4834. Check Window
newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
Dynamic Duos
Meets occasionally for a variety of getacquainted social activities for couples of all
ages and orientations. Past events have
included walking tours, picnics, as well as pool
and dance parties.
Contact Alice Diamond at [email protected].
Check Window newsletter, Church Calendar for updates, or
ask to be placed on the e-mail list.
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Life Practices
Ages 18-24s
Wondering what we are all about? Well, so are we! YAMS
(Young Adult Mystery Squad) is a group for ages 18-24 at the
First UU Church in San Diego. Gatherings are Sundays at 1p,
usually in Hillcrest, Room 114a. Topics include those that are
social/personal/spiritual as we explore meaning and mystery
through discussion/games/fun. Snacks provided. Fourth Sundays are Brunch Sundays. (Pay your own way.)
Contact [email protected] for more info and to get
connected to the google and Facebook groups
Ages 30-55s
Join us for the new 30-55 group whose mission is to create a
supportive environment for exploratory learning through activities that foster inclusive community involvement for members of the congregation, associated community and newcomers alike. Members of this group will exercise collective
leadership while participate in exciting opportunities for
learning and growth. Together we hope to reflect the growing diversity of our community. Anyone between the ages of
30-55 who is looking for a small group home is encouraged
to join us. Welcome!
Contact Claudia Lizett Lopez at [email protected].
Small Group Ministry
Ages 23-35s
Come, come whoever you are. Well if you are between the
ages of 23-35. Gatherings are Wednesdays at 7p in Hillcrest,
Room 114b, usually.
First Wednesday—Conversation and Discussion
Second Wednesday—Planning and Play
Third Wednesday—Conversation and Discussion
Fourth Wednesday—Games Night!
Fifth Wednesday—Field Trip
Contact [email protected] for more info and to get
connected to the google and Facebook groups
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Life Practices
Small Group Ministry
Unitarian Universalist Men’s Fellowship (UUMF)
Supports men in the quest for lives of compassion, integrity, responsibility, and balance. A caring, intentionally diverse brotherhood, committed to social justice, and
offering opportunities for intimate sharing,
personal growth, and spiritual deepening.
For further information on groups and
events visit http://www.firstuumf.org/UUMF.
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Justice Practices
First UU Rainbow Action
 Rainbow Socials are on the 4th Sundays, Balcony of the
Welcoming Center between services. Get the latest
news, gossip and catch up with new members. Grab
coffee from Bard Hall.
 Rainbow Brunches are on the 2nd Sundays, around 1p at
local restaurants.
What can UU offer LGBTQ? For information contact John
Keasler 619.905.2673 or [email protected].
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
UUniforms (pronounced U–Uniforms)
Meets occasionally for planningpotlucks and service projects.
A military and uniformed services
support group for those who serve, have
served, and those who stand by their
side at home, providing help for service
families meeting the challenges of
being a UU and associated with the
uniformed services.
For more information visit our facebook page (http://
www.facebook.com/UUUniforms), or the UUA’s CLF Military
Ministry (http://www.clfuu.org/ministries/military-ministry/), or
contact Bart Baenisch [email protected].
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
Small Group Ministry
Friends of de Benneville Pines Potluck and Meeting
3rd Sundays—5p social hour; 6p potluck; 7p meeting, various
private homes.
Supports our church camp, de Benneville
Pines Camp & Conference Center in the San
Bernardino Mtn, through fundraising,
publicity, and hands-on work projects; also
supports group members. RSVP.
Check Window or Church Calendar for contacts and
updates.
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Neighborhood Groups (Part I)
These are gatherings of people who live in common areas who meet in social gathering for support and fellowship.
Small Group Ministry
Pacific Beach
Alec Harootunian and Julie McKane
mailto:[email protected] or
[email protected]
Generally meets every 4th Sunday, late afternoon, at various homes of members. We have
finger food potluck, usually a short check in,
then a discussion on various wide ranging
topics. All are welcome to attend.
North Country Inland
(Mira Mesa, Scripps Ranch, PQ, 4S, RB, Poway, Ramona,
Escondido)
(plus a related, but separate, Book Club)
Bob & Betsy Stevens
mailto:[email protected], 858.451.5653
Generally meets 3rd Sunday, 2-4pm, in members' homes or in
parks for a potluck, is intergenerational and children are welcome.
Tierrasanta
Marti & John Batchelder mailto:[email protected]
Generally meets quarterly in the Villa Porto Fino Club House
at 10690 Escobar Dr.
University City
John & Ardath Schaibly mailto:[email protected] 858.453.5990
Point Loma / Ocean Beach
Generally meets 2nd Sunday of each month, 6-9pm.
A social group of mostly elders; generally a pot luck but the
host decides on what to ask others to bring food-wise and
also prepares a theme or topic for that month's meeting.
Dave Hunt mailto:[email protected]
Clairemont / Bay Park
Generally meets 2nd Sundays of each month, late-afternoon;
times and locations vary. Newt Ferris mailto:
[email protected]
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
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Neighborhood Groups (Part II)
These are gatherings of people who live in common areas who meet in social gathering for support and fellowship.
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U.U. South Bay Neighborhood Group.
The UUSBNG meets on an ongoing basis, every first Sunday of
even months., i.e. February (02), April (04), June (06), etc.
Times, locations and activities vary. Potlucks, socializing at
individuals’ homes or Rec Centers. All members & friends living in the South Bay are invited. Contact Theresa MartinWerk & Steve Werk, [email protected] to be included on the
email invitation list (or to receive a mailed invitation if you
don’t have email). Please RSVP.
The Middle-East County UU Neighborhood Group
(the College, Del Cerro, San Carlos areas)
Contact: Suzanne Hess ([email protected])
Generally meets every other month at various members'
homes on a Sunday evening; dates & time determined by
the hosts for each potluck, but usually around 6p.
The Near-East County UU Neighborhood Group
(Kensington area)
Contact: Peggy Holl [email protected] 619.546.6525
Generally meets every other month at various members'
homes on a Sunday evening; dates & time determined by
the hosts for each potluck, but usually around 5p.
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
Continued ...
Small Group Ministry
The Far-East County UU Neighborhood Group
(La Mesa and beyond)
Contact: Drew Massicot [email protected]
619.460.2901
Generally meets every other month at various members'
homes on a Sunday evening; dates & time determined by
the hosts for each potluck, but usually around 6p.
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Neighborhood Groups (Part III)
These are gatherings of people who live in common areas who meet in social gathering for support and fellowship.
Small Group Ministry
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WHANG (Wider Hillcrest Area Neighborhood Groups) (92103)
Because of the size of the group, there are three attendeerotating groups (Grp A, B, and C) that meet simultaneously,
generally the 1st Sunday of each month, 5:30-7:00p. Locations vary. The total Wider Hillcrest Area Neighborhood
Group meets the first Sunday of each quarter (January, April,
July, and October) at the Church. Variety is the spice of life
for WHANG groups. We all bring finger foods to share. Some
groups discuss a topic such as recent movies or the Sunday
Sermon; some have a social time, sharing food and being
together; and some have a program, one group had a folk
singing duet.
Contact Jim Grant mailto:[email protected] for details.
Check Window newsletter or Church Calendar for updates.
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Music Groups
Chalice Choir
Performs three times a month at Sunday Services and leads festival services
with instrumental ensembles twice a year. For more information, go to http://
www.firstuusandiego.org/chalice-choir.
JUUL Tones
An auditioned, a-cappella vocal ensemble, singing a wide variety of styles of
choral music. In addition to community, social-justice-related, and outreach
performances, the ensemble sings monthly for Sunday worship. For more
information, go to http://www.firstuusandiego.org/juul-tones.
The South Bay Singers
A multicultural and multi-generational ensemble of highly spirited and
enthusiastic singers. Our repertoire is eccentric and inspiring, ranging from
traditional to contemporary songs from all over the world - such as Spanish
Folk music, American Blues and Folk, Native American Chant,
African American Spirituals and more. No experience necessary. Contact
Lorelei Isidro for more info at (619) 920-2070 or http://www.firstuusandiego.org/
south-bay-music.
Handbells
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UUBellation Handbells—Our entry-level ensemble of adults that rings three
-octave sets of hand bells and hand chimes. It offer musical beauty to
our Sunday worship and does community outreach.
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Las Campanas Handbell Ensemble—Our advanced musical ensemble of
adults that rings three-octave sets of handbells and hand chimes. It offers
musical beauty to our Sunday worship and does community outreach.
For more information, go to http://www.firstuusandiego.org/hand-bell-choir.
Children’s Choir
A basic music-learning experience for children ages 4½ to 9 based on music
from many world traditions. Age-appropriate vocal technique is taught, and
this group sings several times throughout the church year. For more
information, go to http://www.firstuusandiego.org/children-and-youth-choirs.
Voices in Unity
Junior and senior high youth learn four-part music, theory, and vocal
training. They perform monthly during Sunday services. For more information,
go to http://www.firstuusandiego.org/children-and-youth-choirs.
Small Group Ministry
Women’s Chorus
This ensemble rehearses weekly to perform four-part sacred and secular
music for treble voices in worship and community outreach. Meets Thursdays
at 7p, in our Chapel. Director Lynn Mendoza-Khan stresses a healthy vocal
technique for singers of all ages. For more information, go to http://
www.firstuusandiego.org/womens-chorus.
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Wisdom Circles—
Nurturing Connections, Exploring Spirituality
Wisdom Circles are intentional lay-led, open, small groups
that deepen and expand the ministry of this congregation.
Wisdom Circles help build community and provide opportunities for deeper relationships – intimacy -- and opportunity
for deeper spiritual exploration and search for meaning –
ultimacy.
Small Group Ministry
The Wisdom Circle study topics are based on the monthly
Transformational Worship Themes.
Generally, the groups do not meet during the summer
months. New groups are
formed as needed. For further
information about these
groups, please contact Chris
Christenson,
[email protected],
619.298.9978 x 214.
Most Wisdom Circles are on Summer 2014 break. Some will
continue in Fall 2014, other new ones will be formed. Fall
2014 registration is Aug 17, 24, and 31 on the Patio.
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Ministry Teams
Your invitation to become involved and to lead...
First UU Church is organized into “Ministry Teams,” or, clusters
of groups engaged in the work of the church, led by the
Ministry Team Council.
Today we have eight such teams:
Each ministry team is made up of the individual groups of
the church, such as the Practical Care Network, Friends of
de Benneville Pines, Men’s Fellowship, Earth Centered Spirituality Circle, and Young Adults 25-35. There are about 65 of
these groups that create programs and activities in support
of our mission and Unitarian Universalist values. Anyone can
get involved in these groups.
Download our Ministry Team Magazine for all the details.
For further information contact:
Suzette Southfox,
Director of Membership and Development
[email protected]
Rev. Kathleen Owens, Lead Minister
[email protected]
Small Group Ministry
Caring
Generosity
Larger UU Connections
Lifespan Religious Growth & Learning
Membership Ministry
Social Justice
South Bay
Worship & Program
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Small Group Ministry
Calendar
Small-Group Ministry, Ongoing Spiritual Growth
Sundays, 9-9:20a, Rm 323
Morning Meditation
Sundays,10:45 & 12:45, Archives, Rm 313
Deep Discussions
Sundays, (except 1st), 1p, Rm 321
UU Christian Study Discussion Group
Sundays, 4p, Rm 323
Open Heart Sangha
st
1 Sundays,1p, Rm 323
Cosmos: the Great Story
2nd Sundays, 3p, Rm 320
Shape Note Singers
3rd Sundays, 1p, Rm 323
UU Humanists Film Discussion Group
Mondays, 10a, Bard Hall
Yoga as Meditation
Monday Evenings, 7-8:30p, Rm 323
Meditation Sangha
Tuesdays, 9a, South Bay
Incense Chi Gung
Tuesdays, 7p, Rm 321
Sufi Healing
Wednesday Mornings, 10a-12p, Rm 323
Meditation Sangha
1st Thursdays, 6-8p, Rm 321
A Course in Miracles
Saturdays (except 5th), 10:30a-12:30p, Common Room
Rasa Lila
nd
2 Saturdays: Mar 8, Apr 12, Jul 12, Oct 11, 2015, 6:30p, Bard Hall
Dances of Universe Peace
Sat, Jan 17, 10a, Rev Kathleen Owens
Spiritual Saturdays @ South Bay
4th Saturdays, 6:30p, Bard Hall (none Jan 2015)
Kirtan and Chanting
Occasional 4th Saturdays, 6:30p, Chapel (Jan 24, Mar 23)
Soulful Sundown—Alternative Worship
Occasional 4th Saturdays, 6-9p, various rooms
The Idea: Music Nights, Support Local Bands
Wisdom Circles (check Current edition of The Window)
Neighborhood Groups (check Current edition of The Window)
Affinity Groups (check Current edition of The Window)
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Miscellaneous program notes:
Current classes, programs, and updates are published
weekly in The Window, the First Church’s e-newsletter at
http://www.firstuusandiego.org/the-window---weeklybulletin
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An e-version of this catalog is available on our website at
http://www.firstuusandiego.org/site_education/
adults.html
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You do not need to be a member of First Church to attend any of our classes or small groups.
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Parking is available in our church lot, run by Ace Parking.
 The lot is located at the southwest corner of Arbor
and Front Street, the entrance is on Arbor, opposite the main entrance to the UCSD Medical Center.
 Upon entry, be sure to take a parking ticket.
 Prior to the class an email reminder will be sent.
Attached will be a temporary pass for you to print
and display.
 If you receive a parking payment envelope on
your windshield, insert your pass and put the envelope in the deposit box at the exit booth.
 If you are a church member you do not need a
temporary pass—write your church parking pass
number on the parking ticket, sign it, and return it
to the attendant.
We are located on San Diego MTS Bus Route 3.
http://www.sdcommute.com/Services/Route.aspx?
r=3
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Have an idea, an area of expertise you’d like to share?
Are you interested in facilitating a course or group?
Please contact Chris Christenson, 619.298.9978 x 214.
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The Church of the Larger Fellowship (CLF) offers a variety
of online classes. Interested?
Visit: http://www.uurgl.com/learn/.
General Information
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Our Unitarian Universalist Principles
Principios en Espanol
There are seven principles which Unitarian Universalist congregations affirm and promote:
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The inherent worth and dignity of every person;
Justice, equity and compassion in human relations;
Acceptance of one another and encouragement to
spiritual growth in our congregations;
A free and responsible search for truth and meaning;
The right of conscience and the use of the democratic
process within our congregations and in society at large;
The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and
justice for all;
Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of
which we are a part.
Unitarian Universalism (UU) draws from many sources:
 Direct experience of that transcending mystery and
wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which
create and uphold life;
 Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which
challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil
with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of
love;
 Wisdom from the world's religions which inspires us in our
ethical and spiritual life;
 Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond
to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves;
 Humanist teachings which counsel us to heed the guidance of reason and the results of science, and warn us
against idolatries of the mind and spirit;
 Spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions which
celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live
in harmony with the rhythms of nature.
These principles and sources of faith are the backbone of
our religious community.
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Mission and Outcome Statements
Purpose of Outcome Statements
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The Outcome Statements form the basis of the strategic plan
for the church and are the criteria for which the lead minister
is judged on how well s/he is performing their duties.
MISSION STATEMENT
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The mission of First Unitarian Universalist Church of San Diego
is to create community, to nurture spiritual growth, and to act
on our values to help heal the world.
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OUTCOME STATEMENTS
We create community:
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We welcome and support our members, friends, and visitors
on their spiritual paths.
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We embrace diversity, see differences as opportunities for
growth, and value all people for the ways they enrich our
community.
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We support and encourage families of all configurations, and
we nurture our children and youth.
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We understand our Unitarian Universalist identity, and we embody Unitarian Universalist principles.
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We are compassionate, and we care for and support one
another in times of joy and sorrow.
We nurture spiritual growth:
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We worship together in ways that comfort and challenge us,
and we work and learn together to develop our hearts and
minds.
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We give generously of our time, resources, and talents.
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We share in ministry and develop our leadership abilities in
order to enrich our lives and the lives of others.
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We create an environment in which people feel safe to grow
and change.
We act on our values to help heal the world:
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We identify and challenge oppression and injustice for all
beings.
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We model environmental sustainability.
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We partner with other faith communities and organizations in
support of shared values.
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We proclaim the transformative power of our faith.
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Covenant of Good Relations
Preamble:
We members, friends, staff, and ministers of First Unitarian
Universalist Church of San Diego covenant to treat ourselves and one another with respect. We vow to live our
values, to learn, and to serve in ways that are fulfilling and
responsible.
We respect and honor ourselves and others when we:
 listen, speak, and act with integrity and compassion;
 communicate openly without anonymous criticism;
and
 express gratitude and appreciation.
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We value ourselves and others when we:
 invite and welcome into our church the diverse populations and cultures of the wider community;
 enjoy each other with playfulness and good humor;
and
 act with awareness of ecological issues.
We learn when we:
 educate ourselves about church structure and governance, and the responsibilities of ministers, staff, and volunteers;
 appreciate our own limitations as well as those of others; and
 practice the established process of resolving differences.
We serve when we:
 contribute our financial resources, time. and skills according to our ability, whenever possible;
 model Unitarian Universalist beliefs and values; and
strive to reflect more accurately the demographics of
the wider community in our Church.
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Lead Minister—
Rev. Kathleen Owens
Rev. Kathleen Owens believes
and knows that we are made
whole through the work of community – especially in communities of faith. Unitarian Universalism
is the community of faith for folks
who want to be involved in their
own transformation and healing
so they can help heal and transform the world. Rev. Owens
served as Assistant Minister in Pasadena, CA before being called
to serve First UU Church of San
Diego as Associate Minister. Her
bachelor’s degree from Purdue
University Calumet (Hammond,
Indiana) is in English with a Teaching emphasis and she taught high
school English before entering
Starr King School for the Ministry
(Berkeley, California) where she
earned her Master’s of Divinity
degree. She enjoys reading,
kayaking and movies.
Assistant Minister—
Rev. Jennifer Channin
Adult Religious Education Committee Members
Buddy Dowdy-Winslett, Roger Lundbohm,
Tom Dowdy-Winslett, James Long
Adult Education Coordinator
Chris Christenson
General Information
I'm the Assistant Minister at First UU San
Diego. I work with 4 Ministry Teams:
The Lifespan Ministry Team, which
includes children's and family ministry,
youth, young adult, and campus ministries, and adult religious education;
Membership; Larger UU Connections;
and Social Justice. I moved to San
Diego from the Northeast, where I've
lived in Boston, New York, New Jersey,
Ottawa, and Montreal. Prior to coming to First UU I was the Program Coordinator for the UU Ministers Association. I've also worked in nonprofit development for about 8 years, raising
funds for more than a dozen nonprofits. I graduated from Harvard Divinity
School in 2011 and was ordained by
the UU Congregation of Princeton, NJ,
in 2013. It was wonderful to be ordained by the congregation that I
grew up in. I've been a UU since I was
10 years old and have been thinking
about ministry ever since I was a teenager in my church's youth group. I'm
enjoying West Coast living and am
lucky to have found such a vibrant
urban congregation engaged in
meaningful justice work and nurturing
deep and meaningful community
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Locations
Hillcrest Campus:
4190 Front St, San Diego, CA 92103
(entrance opposite USCD)
(for GPS use 298 W Arbor Dr, SD, 92103)
General Information
South Bay Campus:
970 Broadway, #104
Chula Vista, CA 91911
On-site parking is readily available.
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Calendar
General Information
General Information
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General Information
First Unitarian Universalist
Church of San Diego
4190 Front Street ● San Diego, CA 92103
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