Columbine Connections Columbine Unitarian Universalist Church Columbine UU Church Standing Strong at the Marade February 2015 Volume 22, Issue 8 Inside this issue: Register for upcoming classes: ◊ ◊ ◊ 1 Leadership and Technology Conference—Saturday, February 21, 8:30 am—4:00 pm Location: First Universalist Church, 4101 E. Hampden Ave. Registration Link: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/front-range-uu-leadership-andtechnology-conference-tickets-15185751993 Reimbursement available: Submit your receipt to Cris Cardenas at, [email protected] Foundations of Compassionate Communications Training, March 6, 6:15—9:00 pm, March 7, 9:00 am—5:00 pm, April 4, 9:00 am—5:00 pm Early Bird Registration Ends February 20th Location: Columbine UU Church Registration Link: https://www.cnvc.org/trainingcal/view?training_id=4686 Website: http://nvctraining.com/ 2015 Day at the Legislature, Register by February 2nd, Event is on February 9th , 8:00 am—1:00 pm Registration Link: http://interfaithallianceco.org/event/2015-day-at-the-legislature/ February Worship 2 Rev. Julia McKay’s Article 3 President’s Article 4 Blue’s Clues Treasurer’s Report 5 6 Musical Articulations 6 Compassionate Communications Training 7 Food For Thought Series 8 Committed Relationships 8 Building the World We Dream About 8 Third Friday Film Forum 9 Sanctuary Project Visit 9 Detention Center Vigil 10 Detention Center Valentines 10 Rainbow Alley 10 Book Club 13 Worship for the Month of February Monthly Theme: Faith Feb 1st, 10:30am, “Faith: A Spiritual Thirst” Faith can be a loaded word for Unitarian Universalists. Being a person of faith has often meant “blind faith,” or belief in something that cannot be proven. So, if faith is not that – then what does it mean for UU’s to have faith? To be a person of faith? To be a people of faith? Why do we need it? Rev Julia speaks. community organizing, and has broadened to include the healing power of joy, as well as justice. Rev. Lydia is a graduate of Starr King School for the Ministry and a long-time friend of Rev. Julia. Feb 15th, 10:30am “ The Magic of Re-imagination” In our exploration of faith through the UU Challenge, we have been looking at cultural stories and myths that have Feb 8th, 10:30am, informed our ideas about “Belonging and Becoming” religion. Today’s service will continue to look at the Pulpit Exchange with Rev Lydia Ferrante-Roseberry promises and possibilities that can be found in religious In response to the increasing re-storation, re-formation, and fragmentation of life, the re-imagination as the ultimate Rev. Dr. Rebecca Parker asks hope and potential for our Unitarian Universalists "Where is lives. Rev Julia speaks. the claim of life upon us that can move us beyond Feb 22nd, 10:30am individual consumerism into “A Generous Life” community connection, into binding obligations that relate us to something larger While life gets better for millions of gays, the number of and deeper?" In today's service, we'll explore not only homeless LGBTQ teens – many cast out by their families – what holds us together at Unitarian Universalists, but how quietly keeps growing. Rainbow Alley is a local center that sense of belonging is essential to our callings in the focused specifically on the needs of LGBT youth, ages world. 12-21. Rev. Lydia Ferrante-Roseberry Columbine Church will be preis the minister at the Boulder senting Nadine Bridges, the diValley Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. Her call to ministry rector of Rainbow Alley and our speaker for the morning, arose through the work of 2 with a generous check from the proceeds of our Fall Festival (Auction). Rainbow Alley typifies our principle of the worth and dignity of every person and offers support to an especially vulnerable population. Please make a special effort to attend. Rev Julia McKay, MA, MDiv—Faith: A Spiritual Thirst? A congregant once said to me: “Lately, I'm feeling consistently interested in getting to a layer or three beneath differing beliefs and the ways in which they tend to divide people. What is actually going on when two different views confront each other and realize a lack of like– mindedness? Why is this so consistently a source of tension? Why don’t we just show interest, or curiosity, or normalcy?... “Instead, we argue about how to be a good human…Is or isn't there more to the universe than my rabbit knows? What is or isn't the right thing to decide on wolf-management, or any thousand other things that divide people? And, in the same vein, I wonder how we personally maneuver around differing beliefs from one’s own? With confrontation and bristling? Shrugging-off or indifference? Humor? Allowing, or acquiescing? And, what of the times historic or present where being generous or passive with someone else values has resulted in squashed human rights or tragedy – like slavery in America, or Nazi Germany?” You might have heard me say before that Unitarian Universalism is pretty special. We are not a dogmatic tradition…and unlike may other religions members do not have to recite a creed to belong. We get a lot of interest in our faith community because we appeal to people who have come out of other faith communities that don’t fit for them anymore. We also attract those who never grew up in a faith tradition but are searching for spiritual community. When I ask people how they came Unitarian Universalism, if they were not raised UU, they often tell me some version of a story that is similar to mine: • Raised in a religious tradition that may have fed their spirit on some levels, but its theology offended a reasonable mind and an open heart, 3 • • Religious “answers” that didn’t make any sense and when more questions were asked, or no one seemed to be able to answer in a way that was satisfactory, The tremendous grief created by ethics that devalue certain peoples – the fact that there was any reason at all that anyone should be condemned to a place called hell was ludicrous to me. In the end, my faith of origin’s understanding of who I should be, so offended my own integrity, that I left. For 20 years after that, I walked a solo spiritual path, seeking truth in whatever way that I could find it but at the same time trying to reconcile the disconnection that I felt. Eventually, I began to miss the part of religion that fed me – the community of people and the relationships that I had enjoyed, and the grounding that comes from sharing common ritual, ideas, and song together. It was when I began to feel a thirst for religious community again, that I found Unitarian Universalism. That was also the beginning of a much deeper exploration about what I believe and value, how my ethics were formed, and what truly mattered to me (eventually enough to choose ministry as my life’s work). I also found others who shared my values, and my principles. Last month when the Board of Trustees and the Council had the second of three strategic planning meetings as they do each year, we each talked about the UU Challenge and the future of Columbine Church. “It’s the principles…” someone said to me with tears in her eyes, “If I find myself struggling with something, all I have to do is look at the seven UU principles and I can find something solid that guides me.” One of the things that I like about Unitarian Universalism is that we are working to normalize the idea that people walk many different paths, and find meaning and sustenance in many different places. In the words of 16th Century Unitarian forefather, Francis David: “We do not have to think alike to love alike.” In 1568 – motivated by this Unitarian Minister, Francis David (Dávid Ferenc) – King Sigismund of Hungary, issued the Edict of Torda was one of the first attempts to guarantee religious freedom in Christian Europe. It was a proclamation that declared freedom of the pulpit. During a time when there were attempts to establish national churches, ministers were being pressured to adhere to creeds and dogma or loose their clerical standing. The Edict of Torda was a move toward religious tolerance and a direct affront of national establishment of a single religion. It is true that Unitarian Universalism IS grounded in the hope of religious freedom – in our belief in the capacity of each person to chart their own spiritual path without the tyranny of dogmatic constructs to dictate those journeys. But, I am wondering if our Unitarian forebears had more than simple tolerance in mind. I like to imagine that they were fighting against religious authoritarianism, not only for socio-political freedom, but because they did not want an intermediary to dictate their connection to the mystery of life. I like to imagine that our forebears knew that freedom from religious tyranny is ultimately about liberation of the soul – about opening up spaces that allow authentic connection with one’s deep connection to the mystery of life. In fact, the Edict of Torda reads like this: “[We reaffirm] that in every place the preachers shall preach and explain the Gospel each according to his understanding of it, and if the congregation like it well. If not, no one shall compel them for their souls would not be satisfied,” For their souls would not be satisfied…What is this spiritual thirst that is intimated in this phrase? I hope that you will come explore these ideas (and more) about “FAITH” in worship with me this month. In the spirit of liberation, Rev Julia President’s Column Last month I had the wonderful opportunity to go to a wellness retreat for one week. I had never been to one before and looked forward to relaxing and to trying some new things. Those were my basic expectations – relaxation and healthy physical activity - and what I actually received were those things and so much more. Soon after we arrived, I heard they had a labyrinth, so I went down to the beautiful grove in which it was located. There was no one else there – and as I walked it for those 20 minutes, I set a hope that I could be open to getting whatever it was that I needed out of the coming week. Every day was a full day with a variety of options for body, mind and spirit health. I tried a lot of new things – deep water Pilates, stretching classes, circuit training, spinning, chanting, crystal sounding bowls, to name a few. I learned some really helpful things - and had a lot of experiences I could never have anticipated. I think it basically came down to 4 learning about my own body, my mind and my center, and how to listen to them and respond accordingly. Our lives can be so hectic and there can be so much distraction that we often do things from sheer habit, whether they are serving us or not. It helped me immensely to have an opportunity to question the things I do, or eat or think, or think I know. . I think that is what we do as Unitarian Universalists individually and collectively. We challenge the “accepted norms” of our society, laws, and religions. That is one of the things that I so love about it. And when things change out there in the world, we are willing to look at them and talk about them, and respond accordingly if that’s what we are called to do. I grew up a Protestant and attended church until I was about fourteen years old. My parents wanted us kids to go until we were confirmed, and then after that we could decide whether we wanted to continue or not. After my confirmation, I stopped going because I just did not feel like I got anything out of it. The things I heard usually felt removed from my real life, and they did not necessarily make sense to me. Fortunately, now as a member of a UU community, that is not at all how I feel anymore. Now I feel that it is integrated into my life, because I feel in alignment with our principals and sources, and with the social justice work for equality that we undertake. I feel I can always be learning and growing in ways that feel right for me. I can be challenged by what I learn, but it is never challenging to the degree that I question this religion, as I did when I was growing “I think that is what we up. do as Unitarian Universalists individually and collectively. We challenge the “accepted norms” of our society, laws, and religions. On the last day of our stay, I walked the labyrinth again, this time just with gratitude for the many unexpected things I received that week. As I write this column, I know that in addition to being grateful for the opportunities I have to learn and grow from being a part of this religion, I am so grateful for all of the people at Columbine UU Church who keep us going. What a wonderful community we have! Sue Fraley Blue’s Clues—Youth Faith Development Columbine UU Church High School Youth attended the third annual “Our Whole Lives (OWL)” High School Retreat at the YMCA of the Rockies in Estes Park over the Martin L. King Holiday. Lygia Garrick and I along with nine youth spent three days and two nights studying and discussing issues around high school human sexuality. This was the largest group to attend the retreat in the past three years. With high school students busy with academic, athletic and social life it is hard to squeeze in an evening class so the Youth & Children’s Faith Development Team organized a retreat weekend that covers the high school lessons. This year we said goodbye to Ian Cable and Anna Gaiser. This is their last retreat because they graduate this spring from high school. I have had the pleasure of journeying with Ian and Anna through Middle School OWL and all three High School retreats. I’m going to miss their eager participation and poignant tough questions. Good Luck, Anna and Ian, on the new journey that lies ahead. For those in the congregation who are not familiar with OWL, it is a UUA program that is guided by trained facilitators through an engaging curriculum that addresses topics typically excluded from sexuality education and health classes. “Our Whole Lives: Sexuality Education” helps high school youth gain the knowledge, life principles and skills they need to express their sexuality in life-enhancing ways. It puts sexuality into the context of values and personal responsibility, helping them manage social pressure and advocate for equality. It provides an opportunity to bring values and integrity to the real-life issues. sexuality, and their attitudes toward others’ sexuality. OWL is a secular curriculum, appropriate in a variety of settings. “Sexuality and Our Faith” is a religious supplement for use in Unitarian Universalist and United Church of Christ congregations. Our Whole Lives (OWL) values: • Self-Worth • Sexual Health • Responsibility • Justice and Inclusivity. Martin J Blue-Norton, MEd Director of Faith Development OWL models and teaches caring, compassion, respect, and justice. It helps high school‐age youth address their attitudes and values, their feelings about themselves and their Columbine Connections 5 Treasurers Report Welcome to February. The days are starting to get longer as we get closer and closer to spring. The Finance team was using the dark days of winter to work on the budget for next year. We had the opportunity to share the results of that work by presenting our goal budget with the congregation at the end of January. One thing is clear—we are a growing church, doing a lot of great things, and the excitement is showing. On that note, I believe that the budget re- flects the anticipated growth over the next several years. The next step for the finance team will be to kick off our stewardship campaign on February 22nd. George Eger has agreed to chair our campaign again this year. Our approach to stewardship will be different than in the previous several years. This year, we are putting a team together to meet with the entire congregation on a one -to-one basis. These meetings will be a good opportunity to talk about all those exciting things that we have going on as we all share our vision of the future for our church. I am looking forward to a successful stewardship drive. Our momentum is strong and I really believe we are “a church on the move.” Finally, please use this year’s stewardship drive to share your thoughts with us; we will be listening. Mike Morris Columbine UU Church Treasurer Musical Articulations banjo, guitar, autoharp and more! If you have any questions regarding the group, I invite you to talk to Julia. You can expect great things to come from this group! January's celebration of Martin Luther King Day with a church service on white guilt, and an excellent showing at the annual "Marade" was a very fitting exploration into this month's theme of spiritual integrity. As we move into February, I have a few updates for all of you. Second, thank you to Laurie Pribbeno, who is now the music ministry's social coordinator. I have the immense blessing of leading a music ministry full of individuals with a passion for fellowship and fun! Laurie is the perfect person to make sure things never get boring, and we keep a good balance, even when rehearsals get intense! First off, I would like to thank Julia Guzman-Henderson, soprano extraordinaire, for taking over coordination of our resident folk-rock group at Columbine. So far, we have interest from harpists, fiddle, I would also like to mention that January marked the end of the third and final module of my first year in the UUA/UUMN Music Leadership 6 Credentialing Program, which covers leading an effective choir rehearsal. If you're interested in the MLCP curriculum, or if you have any questions about this incredible opportunity that Columbine has given to me, I am happy to show you some materials and discuss what the MLCP is doing for our music ministry. Finally, the choir continues to rehearse Thursday nights from 6:45 to 8:45 at the church, and we still have almost six months left in our season, so feel free to drop in any time! Faithfully Yours in Song, Matthew Frisk Director of Music FEBRUARY 2015 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 Adult Faith Development Opportunities COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION TRAINING—15 Attendees Needed to Have This Class Open yourself to the unprecedented power of Compassionate Communication, a transformative training for breakthrough interpersonal connection and peace-building in everyday life. • Experience conflict – and even judgments – as welcome paths to deeper connection. • Respond to challenging situations with satisfying integrity. • Live your life in greater harmony with your deepest spiritual values. • Compassionate Communication offers practical, learnable and doable skills for transforming any moment into an unlimited resource of compassion and heartfelt connection. You will: • Return to self-connection and presence during intense encounters. • Listen deeply and respond compassionately, regardless of how others express themselves. • Recognize criticism and judgment as requests for help. • Support colleagues, family and friends in discovering true healing, practical solutions and new possibilities. • Express yourself with greater clarity and confidence. By completing this training, you will have a Level 1 Certification in Compassionate Communications Early Bird rates are for registrations completed and paid in full by February 20; UU Members – $240 Early Bird, $285 after Feb. 20; Non-members – $285 Early Bird, $330 after Feb. 20. Scholarships are available. Details and registration page: https://www.cnvc.org/trainingcal/view?training_id=4686. All sessions will be held at Columbine Church. Facilitator is Kathy Ziola, MA, a certified trainer with the Center for Nonviolent Communication. March 6 (Friday): 6:30 p.m.-9 p.m. March 7 (Saturday): 9 a.m.-5 p.m. April 4 (Saturday): 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Contact: Rev. Julia McKay, [email protected] Columbine Connections 7 Adult Faith Opportunities—Continued Sunday Morning Food For Thought Series: You are invited to participate in lively and informative discussions before the service on the first and third Sunday mornings every month. Topics, which will vary, will be facilitated by members of the congregation interested in COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS If you are a couple in a committed relationship and wish to build and nurture your relationship, this six-week course is for you. We would like all couples to attend all six sessions. The sessions will be based on a UU curriculum, adapting it our needs. We will meet on Sunday afternoons at the church. BUILDING THE WORLD WE DREAM ABOUT A UU Tapestry of Faith Program for adults, this four-part series will feature authentic and honest conversations on the topic of race. Rev. Julia McKay, Rev Jann Halloran, Kenny Wiley, Eddy Carroll and others will be facilitating the course. Although the sessions are progressive, you do not need to attend all the sessions to take part. Come to any class that interests you! Sessions will be held the second and fourth Tuesdays at the church (with the exception of March 31). Register for each session on Signup Genius 8 participating. There is no registration required or cost to attend. If you have an idea and wish to facilitate a discussion, or to arrange for child care at least one week in advance, please contact Bob or Carol Steele. The time for all discussions is 9:15 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. Feb. 1: UU principles: How do they apply to crucial current events? (Part 1) – Bob and Carol Steele Facilitators are Julia GuzmanHenderson, Jason Henderson Christine Sizer and Chris McGuire. There is no cost to attend. At least four couples are needed to sign up. Please contact Julia GuzmanHenderson to sign up or to arrange for childcare at least one week in advance of each session. February 8, 15, 22: 4-6 p.m. www.signupgenius.com/go/10c 084dacac29a0fd0-building. Classes are free to pledging congregants; $10 donation per session for visitors. Childcare can be arranged by contacting Dana Lusk at [email protected] at least one week in advance of each session. All sessions meet from 6:45 p.m. to 8:45 p.m. Part III, The Experience of Whiteness and Ethnicity Part II, Understanding Privilege, Power, and Promises February 10: Navigating the landscapes of power and privilege • February 24: Discerning race/discerning power, Power at work in the congregation • Feb. 15: UU principles: How do they apply to crucial current events? (Part 2) – Bob and Carol Steele March 1, 8, 15: 4-6 p.m. Contact: Julia GuzmanHenderson, [email protected], 720-663-8399 or Christine Sizer, 303-842-2899, [email protected] March 10: Ignoring or exploring white identity • March 31: The experience of whiteness from other points of view, Growing and healing within ethnic or racial groups • Part IV, Building Bridges of Trust and Accountability April 14: Reconciliation and healing • April 28: Building cultural competency Contact: Rev. Julia McKay, [email protected] • Adult Faith Opportunities—Continued THIRD FRIDAY FILM FORUM Columbine has beguns its Third Friday Film Forum in 2015. It is intended to be a faith development opportunity that is both social and spiritual. Anyone can facilitate. The facilitator selects the movie and leads the discussion. Participants bring their own drinks and a snack to share. Young adults are welcome but parental discretion is advised. Movies will be shown at 5 p.m. and the discussion will follow from 7-8:30 p.m. If you prefer, you may watch the movie at home and join only the discussion. There is no cost to attend. To facilitate future movies, sign up, or arrange for child care at least one week in advance, contact Susan Stein. February 20: Movie, “My Neighbor Totoro,” Unrated, Facilitator is Matthew Frisk News From The JustACT Team New Year Started with a Visit Supporting the Sanctuary Project at First Unitarian Society of Denver After a service at Columbine about the Sanctuary Project at First Unitarian, and the need to provide more help and sanctuary for undocumented members with children born in this country, thirty-four members of the Columbine Congregation signed up to support the movement, through a new website called “Lotsa Helping Hands” (to sign up go to: //www.lotsahelpinghands.com/c/721765). The purpose of the website is to share in providing support for an undocumented immigrant who has received a deportation order and who has a family with children born in this country. On Saturday, January 10th, eleven members of Columbine went to First Unitarian in Denver to visit 9 Arturo Hernandez, who is in sanctuary at that church, after receiving a deportment order. He has two children born in the USA. Arturo has been living in quarters in the basement of First Unitarian since October of 2014, and enjoys opportunities to visit with other people to pass the time. We wanted to learn about the life he leads, provide encouragement for him, his wife and two children, and provide aid in the form of food, and gift cards for purchasing more food, clothing and other necessities. We played a new game with Arturo in the low sealing recreation room. The game, provided by JustACT’s Team Leader, Maureen Flanigan, while we sat in chairs on either side. Arturo was outstanding at the game, frequently heading the ball, soccer style, instead of batting it with his hands. After the game Arturo showed us his bedroom, next to the recreation room, as well as several projects that he is working on in the church to be of help. We then shared a potluck lunch with Arturo and his nine year old daughter, Andrea, while we continued our conversation about his experience, and then gave him cards of support from our group, as well as gift cards for food, and other necessities for his family. It was a worthwhile project for all. JustACT News Continued Love Knows No Borders…No Walls February Detention Center Vigil on Monday, February 2nd. Join us as we continue our witness at the detention center vigils from 6:00-7:00 pm at the ICE for-profit GEO Detention Center at 30th & Peoria in Aurora, CO. Stand in solidarity Share Your Love!! Help make Valentine’s for those being held at the Detention Center We’ll have a table set up with hearts, doilies, markers and While Life gets better for millions of gays, the number of homeless LGBT teens, many cast out by their families, quietly keeps growing. Come and learn about this issue at our February 22nd worship service. We have invited Nadine Bridges, the director of Rainbow Alley, to speak. Rainbow Alley is a local center focused specifically on the needs of LGBT youth, ages 12-21. We 10 carpool contact Maureen Flanigan at 303-972-9453 or [email protected] Directions from the church: Take I-25 north to I-70 east. Exit south (right) at Peoria then turn right (west) at 30th. with all families facing separation from their loved ones. For information or to stickers; you add the love through February 8th. Tell those in detention that they are not forgotten. No está olvidado. will be presenting “Rainbow Alley Nadine with is a local center a generous focused check from specifically on the needs of the LGBT youth, proceeds ages 12-21. “ of our Fall Festival. Rainbow Alley typifies our principle of the worth and dignity of every person and offers support to an especially vulnerable population. Please make a special effort to attend. The Columbine UU Church Book Club will meet Wednesday, February 25th The book being discussed Wednesday, February 25th, is “Caleb’s Crossing” by Geraldine Brooks Bethia Mayfield is a restless and curious young woman growing up in Martha's Vineyard in the 1660s amid a small band of pioneering English Puritans. At age twelve, she meets Caleb, the young son of a chieftain, and the two forge a secret bond that draws each into the alien world of the other. Bethia's father is a Calvinist minister who seeks to convert the native Wampanoag, and Caleb becomes a prize in the contest between old ways and new, eventually becoming the first Native American graduate of Harvard College. Inspired by a true story and narrated by the irresistible Bethia, Caleb’s Crossing brilliantly captures the triumphs and turmoil of two brave, openhearted spirits who risk everything in a search for knowledge at a time of superstition and ignorance. The Book Club meets at 7:30 p.m., at the church on the fourth Wednesday of each month. Interested members gather at 5:45 p.m., at a local restaurant prior to the meeting. A little early because it might be more crowded. The restaurant chosen for February is Hurricane Grill and Wings Bowles Avenue & Wadsworth Blvd; Bowles Crossing Shopping Center 8025 West Bowles Ave Littleton, CO 80123 Phone: 303-573-8000 The book chosen for discussion in March 2015 is “Boy, Snow, Bird”, by Helen Oyeyemi A modern reimagining of the Snow White fairy tale follows the experiences of a woman who marries a mid-20th-century Massachusetts single father and succumbs to vanity when the birth of her baby reveals her husband to be a light-skinned African American You need not have read the book to participate, and visitors are welcome. For information about the restaurant please contact Debbie Doyle, Book Club Coordinator ([email protected]) 303-697-9503 11 Officers Sue Fraley, President Greg Lauer, Vice President Maura Wamsley, Secretary Mike Morris Treasurer Trustees David Manning Taylor Powers Deb Suzuki [email protected] 303-972-1716 Columbine Unitarian Universalist Church Staff Rev. 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