Anonymous Times Published by North Orange County Central Office, 1661 E. Chapman Ave., Suite 1H, Fullerton, CA 92831 Volume 12 Issue 3 Alcoholics Anonymous January/February 2015 Looking Back By Dick C. At the end of the year, I like to remember where I came from and what life is like today. Sometimes I do it in the form of a poem as I did this year. (I’ll never cause the great poets to turn in their graves). Other times, I remember alone in my thoughts. The process tends to ground me in reality once again. Invariably, a sense of gratitude sets in. How could it not when looking back at those years of alcoholic behavior? The look-back also includes my childhood complete with dreams, disappointments, family life and all of the good and bad it entails. The baggage I inherited as a child, as well as that which I willingly embraced as a young adult, forged the home I created for my own children. In my case, there is not a lot to be proud of as I got sober in my late forties and by that time my children were young adults living life on their terms...which brings me back to where I am today, starting a new year. First and foremost is the fact that AA has taught me to to aspire to rigorous self honesty. That clarion call is easier to give lip service to than it is to put into practice. I fail regularly. Still, admitting failure and once again pursuing that goal is mandatory if I am to become the man I aspire to. North Orange County Central Office 1661 E. Chapman Ave., Suite 1H Fullerton, CA 92831 Open Mon.-Fri. 9 a.m.–7 p.m. January is the first of twelve months in our calendar year and like the first of the twelve steps in AA, the hindsight of the past makes for a good jumping off point into the future. Continued on Page 3 It is rigorous honesty Sat. & Sun. 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. PHONE: (714) 773-4357 (24 hrs.) FAX: (714) 773-0179 WEBSITE: www.aanoc.com [email protected] INSIDE THIS ISSUE AA History Why is a Sponsor Necessary? NOCCO Financials 2 Jerry L. Disruptive Members 3 The question comes up quite often why so much emphasis is placed on a sponsor when the word is not used in the big book in the first 164 pages. Events 4 Calendar 4 In the early years of Alcoholics Anonymous the biggest growth took place in Cleveland, Ohio. In the book ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE on page 20 is anccount of this phenomenal-growth. So many people were coming in that it became evident that a scheme of personal sponsorship would have to be devised for the new people. Each prospect was assigned an older A.A., who visited him at his home, or in the hospital, instructed him on A.A. principles, and conducted him to his first meeting. But in the face of many hundreds of pleas for help, the supply of elders could not possible match the demand. Brand new A.A.’s, sober only a month or even a week had to sponsor alcoholics still drying up in the hospitals. Birthdays 5 Bulletin Board 6 Meeting Donations 7-8 Speaker Meetings 9 Happening at Central Office 10 Women’s Banquet Flier 11 Rockin Soberfest Flier 12 So although the word sponsor was not used in the first 164 pages it is evident why they were, and are, still needed. Watch these pages in future editions to see how the steps were taken in the early years of Alcoholics Anonymous. 2 NORTH ORANGE COUNTY CENTRAL OFFICE OF ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS GROUPS, INC. Statement of Revenue and Expenses - Tax Basis For the One Month and Eleven Months Ended November 30, 2014 and 2013 Nov-14 2014 2013 2014 2013 Current Period Amount Current Period Year To Date Year To Date Amount Amount Amount Revenue Sales $ Donations - meetings Donations - B-day / other Donations - Faithful Five Fundraisers - Events Donations - Soberfest - OC Convention - Women's Banquet Misc. Income TOTAL REVENUE $ 4,975.00 3,171.66 10.00 85.00 3,136.61 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.03 $ 4,366.75 2,551.94 0.00 120.00 3,685.00 0.00 0.00 0.00 0.06 $ 57,945.01 40,887.75 1,411.28 1,581.00 9,579.61 4,820.00 3,800.00 800.00 4.60 53,047.51 39,693.50 3,974.10 790.00 11,358.12 0.00 0.00 2,000.00 7.36 11,378.30 $ 10,723.75 $ 120,829.25 110,870.59 $ 5,149.80 $ 5,494.15 $ 40,800.06 38,352.15 $ 6,228.50 $ 5,229.60 $ 80,029.19 72,518.44 Cost of Sales and Direct Costs Total Cost of Sales and Direct Costs GROSS PROFIT Operating Expenses Total Operating Expenses 6,168.21 6,380.65 73,643.91 70,539.98 Income From Operations 60.29 (1,151.05) 6,385.28 1,978.46 NET INCOME(LOSS) 60.29 (1,151.05) 6,385.28 1,978.46 Opinions, letters and stories printed by the Anonymous Times are not to be attributed to Alcoholics Anonymous as a whole, nor does publication constitute an endorsement by Alcoholics Anonymous, the North Orange County Central Office, Intergroup or any group within Alcoholics Anonymous. All reprinted articles are printed with permission. Editor/Layout: Paul H. Regular contributors: Jack H. NOCCO Board Oversite Committee: Steve. Chief Proofreader: 86 proof 3 Anonymous Times Disruptive Members at A.A. Meetings From Box 459, Fall 2010 There is always a lot of confusion and indecision when a meeting is visited by a troublesome individual who can create a problem for a meeting. A.A. has provided an answer and solution for this problem in their Box 459, Fall 2010, page 4 • from Box 459, Fall 2010, In the Big Book, the chapter “Working with Others,” lists some possibilities that may occur when an A.A. adopts the attitude that “Helping others is the foundation stone of your recovery.” Helping a drunk may mean “. . . innumerable trips to police courts, sanitariums, hospitals, jails and asylums .... Another time you may have to send for the police or an ambulance. Occasion- ally you will have to meet such conditions.” (Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 97) In short, during the course of laying the foundation stone of recovery and helping others, an A.A. may find him or herself with a troublesome member. In meetings, where A.A.s find other drunks to work with, the possibilities described in helping drunks are also present, and, occasionally, members disrupt meetings. Although A.A.s strive to adopt certain attitudes and behaviors, such as “Love and tolerance of others is our code” (ibid. p. 84), members sometimes find that a troublesome individual’s behavior is so violent or threatening that it has becomee difficult or impossible for the group to fulfill its primary purpose of carrying the A.A. message. Fur- Looking Back ... From Page 1 that demands I acknowledge the past and accept unconditional responsibility for my behavior. Not unlike Step One, “We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable.” The past is done, a fait accompli, we are now faced with creating a better future. I saw a lead-in to a news story the other day where a 17-year-old committed suicide and left a note saying, “I want my death to mean something.” I could not help but think the brief fame resulting from a public suicide is tragically misguided as well as short lived. As we embrace step one in a moment of clarity, we embark on a journey to a new life. And that is precisely what creates a legacy that has meaning over generations. It is “our life” that we want to have meaning, not the finality of death. The reclaimed lives of alcoholics can, and do, change lives for generations in our own families and by our influence on others. It is redemption manifested in an inspired and undeniable message of hope for those who may feel hopeless. I urge you to embrace January and the new year with renewed commitment to the twelve steps. One day at a time, face life and its challenges and learn to enjoy the challenge. You have been blessed where others have not had the opportunity. Let the journey begin. Stay sober, practice the principles in all your affairs to the best of your ability, and your children and theirs will be blessed by the body of your life’s work. thermore, Tradition One reminds the group that “Each member of Alcoholics Anonymous is but a small part of a great whole. A.A. must continue to live or most of us will surely die. Hence our common welfare comes first.” (Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 189) How a group handles disruptive and/or threatening members can cause conflict and controversy, so many group members rely upon the shared experience of others who have successfully dealt with a similar situation. Often, groups or group members contact the General Service Office regarding disruptive members at A.A. meetings. G.S.O., in addition to upholding actions of our Conference and board, also functions as a repository for the shared experience of A.A. groups. Some groups have shared suggestions on how to handle disruptive behavior. One group recommends that a member first approach the individual, informally and one-on-one, in order to discuss the problem and look for solutions. This group reminds one another to let the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions guide all communication, striving always to place principles before personalities and to treat all with kindliness, patience, compassion, tolerance, and love. In another example, one group shared how they dealt with disruptive and/or threatening members who did not respond to polite requests or one-on-one approaches: The group set up a group conscience/business meeting and, prior to all discussion, agreed to the following format: 1.) Each member can speak only twice on each topic, and 2.) Each member can share for only two minutes at a time. Further, the group also found it helpful to define a disruptive/threatening member as anyone who interrupts the good orderly direction of the meeting so that the message of Alcoholics Anonymous cannot be carried. A disruptive and/or threatening member was also defined as one whose actions Continued on Page 10 intimidate or 4 Anonymous Times UPCOMING EVENTS! 30th AA Convention Slated for April 3-5 “Community of Unity in 2015” is the theme of the 30th annual Orange County AA Convention with Alanon participation, to be held April 3, 4 and 5 at the Hilton Hotel in Costa Mesa. Open planning meetings are being held at St. Olaf Lutheran Church, 12432 Ninth St., Garden Grove (new location) on the third Wednesday of each month. The next meetings will be held on January 21 and February 18 beginning at 7:30 p.m. A final meeting will be held at the hotel on March 18. As always, if you can talk, stand, sit, smile, saw, paint, hammer, drive, file, type, count or tell jokes, your help is welcome. Visit www.ocaac.org for more information. 12-Step Journey is Planned May 15-17 A three-day discussion of the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous will be held May 15, 16 and 17 in Los Angeles. Billed as “Woodstock West – a Journey through the 12 Steps of A.A.,” the event will feature several speakers discussing their experience with a given step. Cost to attend Woodstock West is $100 and includes a Saturday night banquet and Sunday morning breakfast. The event will be held at the Four Points by Sheraton, LAX; 9750 Airport Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90045. Visit woodstockwest.org for more information, a complete schedule and to register. CHECK IT OUT – DUDE! YOUNG PEOPLE’S A.A. MEETINGS! Sunday Anaheim 12+12 Young People 8 p.m. 202 W. Broadway (@ Lemon) Fountain Valley Youth in Recovery 1 p.m. 16581 Brookhurst St. Fountain Valley, CA Orange Young People’s Discussion 7 p.m. 820 W. Town & Country Rd. (Mariposa Women’s Center), New Lease on Life 12:15 p.m. 2144 Thurin St @ Victoria St (Grange Hall) Women’s Monday FUNDAY 8 p.m. 420 W. 19th St. (1st Methodist Church near Triangle Square), Wild Bunch Men’s Step Study 7:30 p.m. 5001 Newport Coast Dr c/s Bonita Cyn (Mariners Church-Port Kid Zone room) New Lease on Life 12:15 p.m. 2144 Thurin St @ Victoria St (Grange Hall) Topic Discussion 8 p.m. 18372 Lemon Drive @ imperial Hwy (1st Baptist Church) We are Not Saints 3 p.m. 2701 Fairview Rd. (Student Health Center Rm. 108) Anaheim Hills Discussion 8 p.m. 411 Lakeview Ave. (@91 Freeway Medical Office building in basement) Huntington Beach Seacliff 7 p.m. 225 7th St. Garage #1 Tustin Turning the Corner 7:30 p.m. 1221 Wass St, 92780 Newport Beach Hoag Hut Speaker 201 Newport Blvd. Long Beach Nite Owls 10:30 p.m. 4019 E. 4th St. Monday Costa Mesa Irvine Tuesday Costa Mesa 12:15 p.m. Wednesday Yorba Linda Thursday Costa Mesa Friday Saturday Events listed here are presented solely as a service to our readers, not as an endorsement by North Orange County Central Office. 5 Anonymous Times Calendar of Events January 15-18, 2015: The Joy of Living 25th Anniversary River Roundup -- Don Laughlin’s Riverside Resort Hotel & Casino www.rcco-aa.org. January 23-25, 2015: 21st Annual, Gratitude Weekend Highland Springs Resort: 10600 Highland Springs Ave. Cherry Valley CA 92223 www.hsresort.com Alcoholic Women Only -- Contacts: Gloria G. 562-418-2371 [email protected] Marianne F. 714-960-0959 April 2 - 5, 2015 38th Annual San Diego Spring Round Up Town & Country Resort Hotel www.SanDiegoSpringRoundUp.com May 15 - 17, 2015: 34th Annual H&I Conference Holiday Inn: 14299 Firestone Blvd., La Mirada, CA 90638 www.socalhandi.org BIRTHDAY DONATIONS Fancy Nancy R. Mary B. Julie L. Sandra M. Keith Cindy Q. Amanda F. ↔ ↔ ↔ ↔ ↔ ↔ ↔ 6 5 4 2 1 1 1 PUBLISH YOUR BIRTHDAY or SOBRIETY STORY TODAY! To publish your birthday, send us your name, sobriety date and your contribution check (DO NOT SEND CASH) in the mail to: North Orange County Central Office, 1661 E. Chapman Ave., Suite 1H; Fullerton, CA, 92831. Email: offi[email protected]. Call central Office at (714) 773-4357 to add your event. AA’s 12 Concepts The Twelve Concepts for World Service were written by A.A.’s co-founder Bill W., and were adopted by the General Service Conference of Alcoholics Anonymous in 1962. The Concepts are an interpretation of A.A.’s world service structure as it emerged through A.A.’s early history and experience. Last issue we printed concepts 9 and 10. 11. The trustees should always have the best possible committees, corporate service directors, executives, staffs, and consultants. Composition,qualifications, induction procedures, and rights and duties will alwaysbe matters of serious concern. 12. The Conference shall observe the spirit of A.A. tradition,taking care that it never becomes the seat of perilous wealth or power;that sufficient operating funds and reserve be its prudent financial principle;that it place none of its members in a position of unqualified authorityover others; that it reach all important decisions by discussion, vote,and whenever possible, by substantial unanimity; that its actions neverbe personally punitive nor an incitement to public controversy; that itnever perform acts of government, and that, like the Society it serves, it will always remain democratic in thought and action. The text of the complete Concepts is printed in The A.A. Service Manual/Twelve Concepts for World Service (BM-31). Central Office News District 15 has new mailing address District 15 has a new mailing address. It is P.O. Box 1491, Brea, CA 92822-1491. An update will be made to the next Orange County A.A. meeting directory. Also, volunteers are needed for call forwarding to ensure that the phones at North Orange County Central Office are answered 24-7. Please call Central Office at (714) 773-4357 or stop by a 1661 E. Chapman Ave., Suite 1H, Fullerton, CA. Call for Volunteers! Central Office took 627 calls in October-November 316 were from men 311 were from women Keep up the great work — YOU make a difference! 6 Anonymous Times NOC Central Office BULLETIN BOARD NOCPIC 2ND WEDNESDAY January 14 and February 11 INTERGROUP 2ND WEDNESDAY January 14 and February 11 Orange County Hospitals and Institutions Committee North Orange County Public Information Committee North Orange County Intergroup Association Intergroup 2nd Sunday of each month. Institutions Committee: 4-5 pm (Orientation at 3:15 pm) Learn about sharing the message with Non-A.A. people like high school and college students. Meets at 6:30 p.m. on the 2nd Wednesday of every month at NOCCO 1661 E. Chapman Ave., Suite 1H, Fullerton. If you have questions, call Brian K. 714-658-4581 H&I 2ND SUNDAY January 11 and February 8 Hospitals Committee: 6-7 pm (Orientation at 5:15 pm) Garden Grove Alano Club 9845 Belfast, Garden Grove Call (949) 278-5173 Meeting at 7:30 p.m. on the 2nd Wednesday of every month at 109 E. Wilshire, Fullerton (First Christian Church) FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL CENTRAL OFFICE AT (714) 773-4357 Much AA Information at www.aanoc.com Send Us Your Story Visit www.aanoc.com for the latest events, meetings and other information. Online! Anonymous Times The site is chock full of information, including a sobriety clock, links to meetings in Los Angeles, San Bernardino and San Diego counties, as well as links to Alcoholics Anonymous World Services Organization, Southern California GSR Service Area 9 and the AA Grapevine. Current and past issues of the Anonymous Times newsletter are also available for download from the site. articles can be submitted to Faithful Fivers [email protected] Bridget W. • Patricia B. • Amy H. • Pamela C. • “Just Ken” • Cindy Z. • Margaret J. • Ruth T. • Chris D. • Rachel A. • Carol G. • Karen M. • Cliff M. • Julie S. • Paul P. • Sherry L. • Jan. W • Joe P. • Kent M. • Laurel Mc. • Steve D. • Tammy D. • Michele M. • Linda C. • Michael V. • Mike Cate. C. • William G. • Jeanne L. • Nathan J. • Jill L. Faithful Fivers are A.A. Members who graciously contribute $5.00 or more* each month to support their local Central Office in its efforts to carry the A.A. message of hope and recovery to those alcoholics still suffering in our area. As a Faithful Fiver, your personal contribution will help make these vital services possible. The Faithful Fiver idea came about when we remembered that we wasted much more than $5.00 a month during our drinking days. YES! I wish to participate as a Faithful Fiver Here is my contribution of $ __________ for __________months. Name:_______________________________________ Phone #:______________________ Email Address:______________________________________________________________ Make checks payable to: NOCCO ~ 1661 E. Chapman Ave. #1H, Fullerton, CA 92831 *Contributions are limited to $5,000.00 per year, per member and are tax deductible under IRS Code 501(c)3 7 Anonymous Times YTD Meeting Contributions through November City Day/Time Meeting Anaheim Sunday 10:30 a.m. 24 Hr. Group Speaker Anaheim Sunday 8 p.m. Fireside Speaker Anaheim Monday 12 p.m. Nooner’s BB Step Study Anaheim Monday 5:30 p.m. Primary Purpose Anaheim Tuesday 7:30 p.m. Big Book Women’s Part. Anaheim Tuesday 8 p.m. TNT&T Anaheim Thursday 7:30 p.m. We Got A Coffee Pot Men’s 70.00 Friday noon Women’s Big Book Study 35.52 Anaheim Friday 6:30 p.m. Gratitude Is An Action 134.32 Anaheim Saturday 7:30 a.m. Eye Opener Table Pounding 71.44 Anaheim Saturday 8:30 a.m. It’s In The Book Brea Monday 10 a.m. Women’s Discussion Brea Monday 5:30 p.m. 12 & 12 210.00 550.00 Brea Tuesday 10:30 a.m. Daily Reflections Womens 65.52 165.52 Brea Tuesday 5:30 p.m. Men’s Topic Discussion 54.00 194.00 Brea Tuesday 5:30 p.m. Women’s 10 Step HH 80.00 270.00 Brea Tuesday 7 p.m. Step Study Workshop 30.00 120.00 Brea Wednesday 10:30 a.m. Women’s As Bill See’s It 60.00 60.00 Brea Wednesday 5:30 p.m. As Bill See’s It 60.00 Brea Wednesday 6:45P Daily Reflections/ Women’s 126.28 Brea Thursday 10:30 a.m. Step Sisters Step Study 261.90 Brea Thursday 5:30 p.m. Living In The Solution Brea Thursday 5:30 p.m. Women’s BB Study 69.37 Brea Friday. 5:30 p.m. Big Book Study 299.00 Brea Friday 8 p.m. Men’s 300.00 Brea Saturday 10:30 a.m. Womens AA Step 60.00 414.65 Buena Park Monday 7:30 p.m. Monday Nite Topic Disc 140.00 340.00 Anaheim Buena Park Friday 8 p.m. Oct-14 Nov-14 Total YTD Fullerton Sunday 6p.m. How It Works 44.00 20.00 85.00 Fullerton Monday 10:30 a.m. Morning Glories 361.00 180.00 Fullerton Monday 11:30 a.m. Discussion 24.50 Fullerton Monday 6 p.m. Fullerton Big Book 10.00 Fullerton Monday 6 p.m. Cat’s On The Roof 120.00 Fullerton Monday 6 p.m. Monday Nite Men’s @ FAC 100.00 310.00 95.00 Fullerton Monday 8 p.m. Big Book Study 105.00 175.00 315.00 Fullerton Tuesday 7 p.m. Men’s AA Study 70.00 175.00 Fullerton Tuesday 7:30 p.m. Men’s Downtown 12x12 75.00 187.50 Fullerton Wednesday 2 p.m. Women’s Coffee Talk Fullerton Wednesday 6 p.m. Show Up & Grow Up 65.00 Fullerton Thursday 5:30 p.m. Women’s BB Study 50.02 Fullerton Thursday 7:30 p.m. Kitchen Table Meeting 40.00 Fullerton Thursday 8 p.m. Men’s Participation (Mo’s) Fullerton Friday 11:30 a.m. Participation Fullerton Friday 6 p.m. Singles For Sobriety Fullerton Friday 6:30 p.m. Women’s Hit & Run Fullerton Friday 8 p.m. Downtown Fullerton Speaker Fullerton Saturday 9:30 a.m. Feelings 63.00 119.00 Fullerton Saturday 2 p.m. Hot Topic 103.60 163.60 Fullerton Saturday 4:30 p.m. Here & Now Fullerton Saturday 6 p.m. Saturday Night Live Fullerton Saturday 6:30 p.m. Sober Times Garden Gr Sunday Sunday Night Disaster 224.93 Garden Gr Sunday 6:30 a.m. Whole Book Study 28.35 Garden Gr Sunday noon Participation 110.00 Garden Gr Monday 7 p.m. Primary Purpose Book St 21.00 Garden Gr Tuesday 12 noon No Whining Group 100.00 Garden Gr Thursday 6 a.m. Attitude Adjustment 21.00 260.42 Hunt Bch Daily 7 p.m. Triangle Group 40.00 La Habra Sunday 10:30 a.m. Participation La Habra Sunday 7:30 p.m. Sober Sunday La Habra Sunday 7:30 p.m. Sunday Night Book Study La Habra Sunday 8 p.m. Men’s Big Book Study La Habra Tuesday 8 p.m. Participation 50.00 360.00 La Habra Wednesday 7:30 p.m. La Habra Men’s Stag 70.00 690.00 La Habra Thursday 8 p.m. Participation La Habra Friday 8 p.m. Friday Night Beginners 112.70 429.80 140.00 97.00 38.00 50.00 Friday Nite Discussion 342.82 351.03 183.00 78.00 70.00 744.27 380.00 Cypress Sunday 6 p.m. 11 Step Spiritual Growth 160.00 Cypress Tuesday 6 p.m. Happy Hour 200.00 Cypress Tuesday 7:30 p.m. Big Book Study 154.00 Cypress Friday 8 p.m. Lunatic Fringe Cypress Saturday 7:30 p.m. Open Topic Fullerton Daily 6 a.m. Attitude Modification Fullerton Sunday 10:30 a.m. Sunday Morning Speaker 104.00 Fullerton Sunday 5:30 p.m. Women’s Step Study 49.20 200.00 500.00 125.00 90.00 1,440.00 136.67 75.00 195.00 80.00 1,083.00 35.00 28.30 35.00 111.46 175.00 70.00 430.00 70.00 20.00 20.00 45.00 21.00 160.00 36.00 279.75 40.00 50.00 90.00 100.00 180.00 150.00 150.00 800.00 See page 8 8 Anonymous Times Meeting Donations ... From Page 7 La Habra Friday 8 p.m. Friday Night Speakers 100.00 480.00 Seal Beach Tuesday 7 p.m. Drunks R Us La Mirada Sunday 8 p.m. Men’s Big Book Study 73.82 186.82 Tustin Monday 9 a.m. Women’s Utility Group La Mirada Tuesday 8 p.m. Winner’s Circle 40.00 70.00 Villa Park Daily 7:30 a.m. 24 Hr. Group 91.62 466.05 Los Alamitos Daily 7 a.m. Surrender Is Freedom 120.00 1,645.00 Whittier Sunday 8 p.m. Sunday Night Step Study 15.00 95.00 Whittier M-F 7 a.m. Attitude Adjustment 50.00 Los Alamitos Sunday 6 p.m. Big Book Study 60.00 Whittier Monday 7 p.m. As Bill See’s It 38.00 Los Alamitos Wednesday 8 p.m. Sobriety 1st 75.00 Whittier Monday 7:30 p.m. Bill’s Friends - Mens 25.00 Los Alamitos Saturday 6 p.m. Saturday Night Lite 150.00 Whittier Tuesday 7 p.m. No Nonsense 12 x 12 Whittier Tuesday 8 p.m. Winner’s Circle 25.00 Orange Sunday 8:30 a.m. Attitude Adjustment Whittier Wednesday 7 p.m. As Bill See’s It 50.00 Orange Sunday 11 a.m. Book Study Whittier 50.00 Monday 5:30 p.m. Rush Hour 200.00 Wednesday 7 p.m. Women’s Winners Orange Whittier M-F 5:30 p.m. Tustin Rush Hour 60.00 Wednesday 7 p.m. Participation Orange Orange Monday 7 p.m. Women’s E/S/H 293.00 Whittier Thursday 6:30 p.m. Happy Hour Big Book Orange Tuesday 7 p.m. Orange - Tustin Group 126.43 Orange Tuesday 7 p.m. Old School History 25.00 Orange Wednesday 5:30 p.m. Rush Hour 300.00 Orange Wednesday 7 p.m. Easy Does It Orange Wednesday 7 p.m. Name In The Hat 150.00 Orange Thursday 6:30 a.m. Early Bird Discussion 200.00 Orange Thursday 5:30 p.m. Rush Hour Orange Thursday 7 p.m. Men’s Orange Thursday 7 p.m. Thursday Night Book Study Orange Thursday 7:30 p.m. All About Me Men’s Stag 454.09 Orange Friday 6:30 a.m. Smashing Donuts 154.00 Orange Friday 12 p.m. Quality Serenity Orange Friday 5:30 p.m. Rush Hour Orange Friday 8 p.m. No Puffers Speakers Orange Friday 7 p.m. OC Friday Nite Roaming Couples Orange Saturday 8:30 a.m. Participation Orange Orange Orange Placentia Placentia Placentia Saturday 6 p.m. ????? ????? 90.00 175.00 60.00 100.00 165.00 75.00 300.00 25.00 25.00 171.00 Thursday 8 p.m. Thursday Book Study Big Book Study Whittier Saturday 10:30 A Women’s Acceptance Whittier Saturday 7:30 p.m. Whittier Saturday Night Speaker Yorba Linda Daily 6 A Attitude Modification Yorba Linda Monday 7 p.m. Men’s Yorba Linda Tuesday 7:30 p.m. Y.L. Closed Women’s Yorba Linda Tuesday 8 p.m. Ohio Street Winners Yorba Linda Wednesday 12 p.m. Noontimers Yorba Linda Wednesday 7 p.m. Women’s Big Book Study 126.00 522.00 Yorba Linda Wednesday 7:30 p.m. Wednesday Night Book 60.00 300.00 255.00 Yorba Linda Thursday 7 p.m. Solutions - Women’s 70.00 315.00 210.00 Yorba Linda Thursday 7:30 p.m. Y.L. Thursday Participation Yorba Linda Friday 12 p.m. Daily Reflections Yorba Linda Friday 8 p.m. Friday Nite Ohio Winners Circle 275.00 300.00 720.00 350.00 40.00 162661 150.00 711332 187.50 50.00 800.00 ??? 660951 123.50 **no info** **no info** 25.00 **no info** Not A Glum Lot **no info** Sunshine Pumpers Monday 7 p.m. Men’s SRSTO Placentia Monday 8 p.m. Unmanagables Placentia Thursday 10:30 a.m. Women’s Stepping Stones Santa Ana Wednesday 8 p.m. Cooper Discussion 30.00 Santa Ana Saturday 8 p.m. Cooper Speaker 15.00 TOTAL GROUPS: 326.00 280.00 100.00 500.00 600.00 ??? 35.00 Placentia 375.00 170.00 649350 400.00 952.00 100.00 156925 Beginners Sober Start 467.50 252.00 ??? Monday 6:30 p.m. 180.00 87.50 ??? 100.00 6,424.55 208.00 50.00 Placentia Sunday Night 332.50 25.00 210.00 Sunday 7:30 p.m. 200.00 50.00 60.00 Friendship Club 100.00 75.00 40.00 625.72 Winner’s Circle Right Start 25.00 220.00 ??? Sunday 8:30 a.m. 50.00 Friday 7 p.m. 353.96 Hart Park Newcomers 60.00 Whittier 42.00 210.00 60.00 Whittier 230.00 42.00 28.00 70.00 35.00 123.50 65.00 385.05 60.00 60.00 3,319.14 3,171.66 40,911.75 9 Anonymous Times SPEAKER MEETINGS: January/February 2015 Anonymous Times would like to publish your list of speakers for January/February, 2015. Deadline for publication is February 15, 2015. Email: [email protected] Friday 8 p.m. January 9 January 16 January 23 January 30 February. 6 February 13 February 20 February 27 March 6 March 13 March 20 March 27 Downtown Speakers (1 Hour) 109 E. Wilshire, Fullerton 92632 (1st Christian Church) Pittsburg Dave, Buena Park Kevin T., Stanton Lavinia D., Buena Park Kathy H., Fullerton Jimmy D., Malibu TBA Lorenzo D., Fullerton Tullete B., Fullerton Debbie C., Whittier Jerome Scott, Corona Norma M., Long Beach Jared F., Anaheim Friday 8 p.m. January 2 January 9 January 16 January 23 January 30 February 6 February 13 February 20 February 27 March 6 March 13 March 20 March 27 La Habra Speaker 631 North Euclid St., La Habra, CA 90631 Hiro S., Long Beach Tree House Dave, La Crescenta Judy E., Norwalk Pat P., Los Angeles Adam T., Los Angeles Gloria V., El Monte Noel M., Huntington Beach Dianne A., Chatsworth Joseph F., Westchester Tina A., Torrance Demetrius, Bell Flower Brian G., Fullerton Cyndi C., Laguna Nigel Friday 8 p.m. Friday Night No Puffers Community of Christ Church 395 S. Tustin, Tustin Fred L., Brea Roger Mc., Huntington Beach Matt W., Tustin Aaron S., Cypress Aaron H., Garden Grove January 2 January 9 January 16 January 23 January 30 Sunday 10:30 a.m. January 4 January 11 January 18 January 25 February 1 February 8 February 15 February 22 March 1 March 8 March 15 March 22 March 29 Fullerton Alano Center 530 W. Commonwealth, Fullerton Wendi T., Aliso Viejo Quincy J., Encino John N, Huntington Beach BIRTHDAY SUNDAY Mike R., Palm Springs Dyanne G., Huntington Beach Dan R., LA BIRTHDAY SUNDAY Father Leo, Sunset Beach/Seal Beach Trish M., San Clemente Patti O., Mission Viejo Jim W., Costa Mesa BIRTHDAY SUNDAY Sunday Fireside Speaker Meeting 8 p.m. 641 S. Western Ave. Anaheim CA 92804 Hear a great speaker share about sobriety every Sunday. Wednesday Fullerton Alano Center 8 p.m. 530 W. Commonwealth, Fullerton Hear a great speaker share about sobriety every Wednesday. Thursday Pioneer Speaker 8 p.m. 202 W. Broadway, Anaheim Hear a great speaker share about sobriety every Thursday. Saturday Liverpool Speaker 8 p.m. 4861 Liverpool @ Yorba Linda Blvd Hear a great speaker share about sobriety every Saturday. Saturday Oddfellows Speaker 8 p.m. 109 E. Wilshire, Fullerton 92632 Hear a great speaker share about sobriety every Saturday. T o include meetings, we need your speaker lists by February 15, 2015. 10 Anonymous Times Disruptive Members ...From Page 3 frighten newcomers so that they cannot hear the A.A. message. Under these circumstances, the disruptive A.A. member is asked to attend the group conscience/business meeting. Whether or not he or she attends, the group discusses the problem. If present, the procedure is explained to the disruptive member. The disruptive member may be asked to stop attending the meeting for a specific period of time. In the above instance, the member is not being “thrown out” of A.A., just asked not to attend the meeting. The First Tradition assures A.A.s that no member “can compel another to do anything; nobody can be punished or expelled.” (Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 129) It is always hoped that the individual member will see the difficulty as an opportunity for personal growth and will attend other meetings in the area in order to maintain his or her sobriety. Usually, this sort of action is taken as a last resort—after an individual has been asked to change his or her behavior. Bill W., who always emphasized the loving, helpful, and tolerant attitude A.A. members should show each other, wrote in a letter in 1969: “This amount of charity does not mean that we can not exclude those who disturb meetings or seriously interfere with the functioning of the group. Such people can be asked to quiet down or go elsewhere, or, to come back when they are better able to participate.” Indeed, Bill W. was no stranger to tumult, controversy, or disturbances at A.A. meetings. He also had faith that growth and good could come out of trouble. In Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age, he writes, “Within A.A., I suppose, we shall always quarrel a good bit. Mostly, I think, about how to do the greatest good for the greatest number of drunks. Surmounting such problems, in A.A.’s rather rugged school of life, is a healthy exercise. Chattin With Cathy Happening at Central Office Happy New Year 2015!!!! ~ Happy 80th Birthday Alcoholics Anonymous 75th ANNIVERSARY BOOKS $12.00 + tax: On behalf of all of us here at NOCCO, I am pleased to report that we ended in the BLACK for the 3rd year in a row, thanks to all of your meeting donations and to the membership support of our fundraising events – we have the best AA in the world!! Come on in and purchase one of these beautiful limited edition books, they will only be in print until the 2015 International Convention. With this being our 80th year, we are planning a blowout 80th Birthday/ Founders Day Picnic in June this year, stay tuned for more information. Please join me in a heartfelt thank you to the outgoing NOCCO Board 2013 / 2014 of directors. As you know, our board is made up of seven (7) volunteers who give up much of their personal time to make sure the doors of your y central office stay open and everything runs smoothly. MEETING/GROUP DONATIONS Your group contributions help to ensure that our phones are answered 24 Hours A Day, 7 Days A Week. Monthly donation spreadsheets are uploaded to our website @ www.aanoc.com as well as posted in our AA Times Newsletters. If your group donation is not posted, email me at officemanager@aanoc. g @ com. We have pre-printed donation coupons with self-addressed envelopes for your convenience. FAITHFUL 5’ER / BIRTHDAY / INDIVIDUAL / IN MEMORY OF CONTRIBUTIONS EVENTS: It’s Rockin’ Soberfest time again, we help the Soberfest committee by selling tickets here at Central Office, and the event is Saturday, February 14, 2015. Last year Rockin’ Soberfest donated $4,800.00 to NOCCO; the goal this year is $5,000.00!! Please join us for a delightful evening of good food, great fellowship, wonderful speakers, raffle prizes and a dance too! NORTH ORANGE COUNTY CENTRAL OFFICE will be manning the Central Office booth at the 30th Annual Orange County Alcoholics Anonymous Convention, April 3–5, 2015. Please stop by and say hi. Celebrate the 80th Birthday of Alcoholics Anonymous in Atlanta, Georgia, July 2 – 5, 2015, information available on G.S.O.’s A.A. website @ www.aa.orgg, click on the 2015 International Convention logo If you would like to join our Faithful 5’er Club, please be sure to fill out a coupon and mail in the self-addressed envelope. If you would like to make a Birthday, individual or “in memory of” contribution, please note what the contribution is for when you send the contribution in. May God Bless You and Keep You as we trudge the Road Of Happy Destiny! In gratitude, Cathy Dont Drink - Be 11 Anonymous Times 12 Anonymous Times 23 r rd Annual Spaghetti Dinner! Speaker Meeting! Georgia B - La Crescenta Dance! Music by DJ Connection! RAFFL E! ! p i h s Fellow Come join in all the fun! ! c i s Mu UFCW Union Hall 8530 Stanton Ave., Buena Park, CA Dan c ing! Saturday, February 14, 2015, 5:30pm to 12:30am Tickets available at: North Orange County Central Office, 1661 E. Chapman Ave. #1H, Fullerton, 92831 OR Mail to: 5196 Dover Dr., La Palma, CA 90623 MAKE CHECKS PAYABLE TO: Rockin’ Soberfest For more information or to volunteer: Please call Dennis D. (323) 855-0206, contact NOCCO at (714) 773-4357, or e-mail [email protected] ALL TH T HO ORA ORANGE R RANGE ANGE A GE C CO COUNTY COU Y CENTRAL L OFFICE Limit of 500 Tickets Rockin’’ Soberfest - W We are not a glum lot! $ 2 0 .0 0 p e r p e r s o n . I n c lu d e s d in n e r , m e e t in g a n d d a n c e # o f T ic k e ts : _ _ _ _ _ _ _ N a m e A m o u n t e n c lo s e d : $ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ A d d re ss P h o n e P le a s e r e tu r n th is p o r tio n w ith y o u r c h e c k o r m o n e y o r d e r
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